How would a parent react if they caught their son or daughter doing stuff with their boyfriend or girlfriend?

depends on her age, assuming you are talking about a teenager, i would have 'the talk' again. make sure she is on birth control, knows how to get condoms and knows that its ok to say noHow would a parent react if they caught their son or daughter doing stuff with their boyfriend or girlfriend?
It depends on what they were doing kissing hugging things like that I am not worryed about. More than that I would sit them both down and talk to them. Make sure they know what they are geting could get into by having sex or whatever. I wouldn't punish them. I don't think that would do any good really.How would a parent react if they caught their son or daughter doing stuff with their boyfriend or girlfriend?
I would break it up.If they are in my house,unless they are married,they will not be doing anything of that nature..
I don't think I would react at all, but it depends on what ';stuff'; means. If you're talking about kissing, then no reaction at all, but if you're talking about full on nudity, possibly angry. I do, however, comprehend that teens are not usually virgins. I would hope my kids would have the decency to sneak around. I don't mind knowing, but I don't want to see it.
well for one it depends wat they were doing if they were having sex then i would nail my daughters ( sons ) window ground them for a month and they just wouldnt do any thing. if it was kissing then i would just give them a boring lesson but then again it depends what age group there in if its 13-17 and there making out w/ some one thats fine but if ther going farther i would punish them severly.





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chelsea
I wouldn't catch them doing stuff because I wouldn't give the the golden opportunity a lot of idiots give their children to do screw up their lives by letting them have the freedom to ';do stuff';.
Depends on how old they are. Also depends on what they are doing. Sexuality is a normal part of growing up, and while I hope my children will wait until they are emotionally ready, I can only do so much as a parent. Ultimately, teens need to learn to make decisions that affect their lives, and deal with the consequences of those actions.





Overreacting will put them on the defensive and they'll be less likely to confide in you. I'd rather have open and honest communication with my kids than 'laying down the law'.
Depends on how old the two are and what exactly they were doing.





If it was just hugging, kissing, holding hands, or making out, I'd tease them. ';awh, how sweet.';





If I caught their boyfriends/girlfriends hands in my kids pants (or vice versa), they'd better start saying their goodbyes. That stuff is for when you're older.
Once they were both redressed and I had sent the young man home I sat down (very calmly) and explained to my daughter that while I didn't approve of her behavior I wasn't stupid enough to believe that she wasn't going to experiment with such behavior. I then explained to her that since she believed she was old enough to participate in adult behavior she was old enough to take care of herself like an adult...I then made her an appointment with an OBGYN for a full physical and STD testing. I then explained to her in no uncertain terms that while I realized it was her body and therefore her decision as to what she wanted to do with it...she lives in MY HOUSE and that sort of behavior will NOT be allowed under my roof.


Then I told her I loved her, that I was secure in the life lessons and values I taught her and that I trusted that she would make the right decisions for her life.
Yelling does not help, you probably know that. You might let him or her just face the consequences or you could start being a strict. Foolow them, bring them to school, nail the window, etc. It really depends on what stuff they were doing.
I think the children should have enough respect to not have or do anything related to sex, when they could get caught. Kids will be kids, wear protection.
PO'ed but thats life i would just sit my daughter down and have a ';good'; talk with her.
Age of the kid?





I'd break it up unless the two were married. I don't have a problem with kissing and hugging and touching a bit, but if you're doing ';stuff'; in my house, you better be hitched.





TX Mom
oh wow i can only imagine! Im sure they would freakout! and most likely ground the kid for a very very long time.
i would lose it- my children better respect my household and not even consider it.
first, i would ask the boyfriend or the girlfriend to leave IMMEDIATELY.... then i would sit down with my child and talk to her/him, then ground him/her for a week or longer if necessary.