Well when a child is separated from the parent from the first day and it so happens that they live near each other...i understand there wont be anything that can make the child notice that that is my mum or pa...unless otherwise he/ she has been told..children grow mostly without the presence of their fathers unless someone tells them that so and so is ur father they wont know on their own...
There was a case where a man had two wifes and had kids with the both of them, the man got separated from the first wife and kids. at a later stage after many years so we hear that the same man got involved with one of his kids unknowingly and had a child together...it was only when the girl dicided to introduce the man to the rest of the family that she dicovered he was her father who had left her when she was only a few months old.....
Well the man wasnt guilty i mean the girl was grown and all atractive so why not date her? after all age aint nothing hey....
So back to ur question my dear i really believe there isnt that said bond that u can feel when someone is related to you.If a child is separated from his parent?
you have to ask someone it has happened to.
With my own son I feel like he's just someone come to live in our house. I feel the same connection to him as all children. Not like he's especially mine. I do love him very much and feel responsible for him but i don't know there is some other bond that is not there between all people when they have an open heart toward each other.
It might be different between mothers and children though. I wouldn't be surprised.
if the cild was spearated by a parent (father or mother) from since birth, then the attachments are likely not be there, coz if you be there for you child since birth and looking after him and showing love n care then it would be attaached to you and learn to trust you.
Unless, if the child and parent(s) are reunited when the child is young, it may be hard for the child to adjust to the paretns but love can be nutured and can build attachment and love between the child and parent.
If reunited when the child is older, then it would depends, as some child hated the fact that their parents were not there for them or they were lied to, or whatever reasons that cuse them to be unsure of their real parents.
If they live and dont know each other, its most likely that they will be no attraction unless if they both know then it would mean much more than not knowing. imagine you meet a lady or a man and live with him or her, not knowin it your parent, would you have felt anything from them? what if you accidentally fall in love even though that was your parent and you didnt know? that would be weird wouldnt it?
just my humble opion and yet a good question.
hope it helps
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im sorry but i dont get it.
oh wait.......now i understand. i dont kno. if tht happened to u or ur child, im reeally sorry. thts so sad. y do people do tht?
nope, probably not unless one party knows of the other and acts suspiciously then the other might find out...bla bla bla
yes,you know they have a strange kindness feeling about eachother but none of them know what the reason is.
If so, it's more to do with pheromones and scent than any celestial force. But I still highly doubt it.
A child is seperated from his child?
How old are we talking here?
speak english lol
what first day of birth... tsk tsk... he/she required love milk...
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