I have the same problem. Just tell your child straight up. Tell em which one brought you here and which one is here to take care of you and raise you. It should help.How should a mother re-introduce her child to their biological parent?
Well, I talk about things like this using analogies about plants.
When I explain to my young son how babies are made, I tell him that the daddy has a special seed like a flower seed, and he gives it to the mummy and she plants it. Then the baby grows like a flower in mum's belly because that's where it's safe and warm. So maybe you could explain to your son that his biological father is the daddy who gave you the special flower seed so you could plant it, and his stepfather is the one who's been helping him grow and looking after him. Just be matter-of-fact and cheerful about the whole thing. Explain clearly and simply, answer any questions your son might have and make sure he knows that his biological father does love and value him. He will probably feel in some way that his biological father has rejected him, that he was not good enough for his real father to love him and want to be with him, so you will have to find some way to make it feel different to him.
you should he/she wont be able to cry at least if you tell them when he grows up then he might get hurt and not accept his step dad anymore and if you tell him now it will be off ur chest and he will know and begin to forget it and will be ok when he grows up
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