I full custody, there's reasons said by the courts... when can she terminate one of her parental rights?At what age do Children in California can end parental rights of one parent?
If you have full custody, the other parent still has remaining parental rights until the child reaches legal age.
If the other parent wishes to permanently relinquish those rights (and their corresponding duties), this may be accomplished by application to a court. It cannot be done contractually.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Caught driving with without a parent while i only have my permit?
what happens to me how much fine...how much suspension i live in Rockland MaineCaught driving with without a parent while i only have my permit?
In most states you can loose your license until you are 18 years of age and also face a $250.00 fine as well.Caught driving with without a parent while i only have my permit?
Why? Why? Why? Where did you have to get to that was worth loosing your driving privilege over? You may never be allowed to get a DL now that you've shown the courts how irresponsible you are. As a parent I know I would have you on a very short leash as far as driving was concerned if I allowed you to drive on your own at all. Go ahead tell me how it wasn't your fault and that you'll never do it again. IF you don't have any more sense then that you should not be behind the wheel of an auto mobile. I'd like to know what your parents punishment for this was.
Sux to be you! Maybe when they get around to letting you drive again, you will pay more attention to the rules.
You were driving without a license. If convicted they can also pull your permit until you turn 18. If you don't know the rules with a permit, do you really think they will let you go ahead and get your license now?
in illinois you would not be able to get license till 18 and also would be fined between $75-$500
Did you learn anything.
$200 dollar fine for the first time. It would be assuemd to be driving without license.
In most states you can loose your license until you are 18 years of age and also face a $250.00 fine as well.Caught driving with without a parent while i only have my permit?
Why? Why? Why? Where did you have to get to that was worth loosing your driving privilege over? You may never be allowed to get a DL now that you've shown the courts how irresponsible you are. As a parent I know I would have you on a very short leash as far as driving was concerned if I allowed you to drive on your own at all. Go ahead tell me how it wasn't your fault and that you'll never do it again. IF you don't have any more sense then that you should not be behind the wheel of an auto mobile. I'd like to know what your parents punishment for this was.
Sux to be you! Maybe when they get around to letting you drive again, you will pay more attention to the rules.
You were driving without a license. If convicted they can also pull your permit until you turn 18. If you don't know the rules with a permit, do you really think they will let you go ahead and get your license now?
in illinois you would not be able to get license till 18 and also would be fined between $75-$500
Did you learn anything.
$200 dollar fine for the first time. It would be assuemd to be driving without license.
As a current or future parent, would you send your child to a private college if you could not afford it?
This question needs to be answered in one of two ways;
1) As a current parent, would you send your child or children to a private school if you child got accepted to the college even if you knew you could not afford the college.
2) As a future parent, would you consider sending your child to a private college if your child or children got accepted knowing that you could not afford the college.As a current or future parent, would you send your child to a private college if you could not afford it?
no i would not
back when I was applying to college, I didn't apply to any out of state private universities because I didn't want to make my parents pay two or three hundred thousands dollars for my education (even though they were capable of doing so)
i think it would be irresponsible to send your child to an institution that you cannot afford
as for the child, they could argue that they are not getting as good of an education. I say that's bullsh*t...you can get just as good an education at a public university. Plus what is really important is how a student uses his/her time, not which university he/she goes to.As a current or future parent, would you send your child to a private college if you could not afford it?
Private colleges tend to offer very good financial aid, so your question is very hard to answer. At Harvard, if the parents make $60,000 or less, the parents are not asked to contribute. $120,000 to $180,000, the parents pay 10% of their income -- a huge deal when the actual cost is $50,000+. Between $60,000 and $120,000, they pay less than 10% of their income. Very often private colleges end up costing less than public, because of the financial aid. And then there are student loans.
I don't think (lottery?!) I'll have several hundred thousand set aside for college for my son (high school will be over $100,000, LA private school, ugh), and we likely won't qualify for any financial aid, but I'll send him, somehow. He's likely to go into a field where the cost of private college would make sense and raise his income so it would be worth it. Hopefully there will be some sort of merit-based aid available. = )
Private school doesn't always have to break the bank, we already do send the children to a private school, granted one which the tuition is very manageable only a couple hundred per child, per month.
If my children were accepted into a school which was outside of the price range, however the institution was well accredited and a great opportunity I would find a way to make it happen. There are always grants, bursaries, scholarships and subsidies to be had, and I would apply for them all. I would pick up a second job and reevaluate my expenditures.
If the school was worth it, they would go.
As the daughter who is anticipating her acceptance status letter by March 25th to a private, Catholic, all women's school in Indiana... yes, I would send my child. I am very blessed that my parents both have secure jobs and are willing to pay for FOUR (not the five that I will need) years of my college education. The last year comes out of my pocket.
There are scholarships, grants, loans, everything under the sun to help kids get into such schools. But if I ever have children, they will get four years out of my pocket and nothing more. :)
Edited to add: I forgot to mention that I live in lower Alabama.
Well, it depends on what you mean by ';can't afford.'; Most people can't really afford private college at all. You have to be quite wealthy to be able to afford private college for even one child.
I will do my best to send my child to the college of his choice. There are loans available, and we have already started a 529 plan for him.
No, I attended a private school for a term and not only was it a terrible school but it was $10,000/ term and I didn't get any financial aid. I took out loans and I will be paying them back for that one term. My kids will take what I can give them and if they don't want that they can earn their own money to buy whatever they want.
I will try to send my kids to the college of their choice, but if it isn't affordable, they will have to get jobs and loans.
I'd save the best I could and if they insisted on a certain school, I'd rely on them to bust their humps to get financial aid. If they want it that badly, they can help out.lips
1) As a current parent, would you send your child or children to a private school if you child got accepted to the college even if you knew you could not afford the college.
2) As a future parent, would you consider sending your child to a private college if your child or children got accepted knowing that you could not afford the college.As a current or future parent, would you send your child to a private college if you could not afford it?
no i would not
back when I was applying to college, I didn't apply to any out of state private universities because I didn't want to make my parents pay two or three hundred thousands dollars for my education (even though they were capable of doing so)
i think it would be irresponsible to send your child to an institution that you cannot afford
as for the child, they could argue that they are not getting as good of an education. I say that's bullsh*t...you can get just as good an education at a public university. Plus what is really important is how a student uses his/her time, not which university he/she goes to.As a current or future parent, would you send your child to a private college if you could not afford it?
Private colleges tend to offer very good financial aid, so your question is very hard to answer. At Harvard, if the parents make $60,000 or less, the parents are not asked to contribute. $120,000 to $180,000, the parents pay 10% of their income -- a huge deal when the actual cost is $50,000+. Between $60,000 and $120,000, they pay less than 10% of their income. Very often private colleges end up costing less than public, because of the financial aid. And then there are student loans.
I don't think (lottery?!) I'll have several hundred thousand set aside for college for my son (high school will be over $100,000, LA private school, ugh), and we likely won't qualify for any financial aid, but I'll send him, somehow. He's likely to go into a field where the cost of private college would make sense and raise his income so it would be worth it. Hopefully there will be some sort of merit-based aid available. = )
Private school doesn't always have to break the bank, we already do send the children to a private school, granted one which the tuition is very manageable only a couple hundred per child, per month.
If my children were accepted into a school which was outside of the price range, however the institution was well accredited and a great opportunity I would find a way to make it happen. There are always grants, bursaries, scholarships and subsidies to be had, and I would apply for them all. I would pick up a second job and reevaluate my expenditures.
If the school was worth it, they would go.
As the daughter who is anticipating her acceptance status letter by March 25th to a private, Catholic, all women's school in Indiana... yes, I would send my child. I am very blessed that my parents both have secure jobs and are willing to pay for FOUR (not the five that I will need) years of my college education. The last year comes out of my pocket.
There are scholarships, grants, loans, everything under the sun to help kids get into such schools. But if I ever have children, they will get four years out of my pocket and nothing more. :)
Edited to add: I forgot to mention that I live in lower Alabama.
Well, it depends on what you mean by ';can't afford.'; Most people can't really afford private college at all. You have to be quite wealthy to be able to afford private college for even one child.
I will do my best to send my child to the college of his choice. There are loans available, and we have already started a 529 plan for him.
No, I attended a private school for a term and not only was it a terrible school but it was $10,000/ term and I didn't get any financial aid. I took out loans and I will be paying them back for that one term. My kids will take what I can give them and if they don't want that they can earn their own money to buy whatever they want.
I will try to send my kids to the college of their choice, but if it isn't affordable, they will have to get jobs and loans.
I'd save the best I could and if they insisted on a certain school, I'd rely on them to bust their humps to get financial aid. If they want it that badly, they can help out.
I am a minor flying alone from cali to tampa do i need parent approval?
what documents would i need?I am a minor flying alone from cali to tampa do i need parent approval?
Yes you'll parents will need to approve it and pay extra to have you fly as an unaccompanied minor. There will also need to be someone to pick you up from wherever you land that is on your parents approval pick up list.I am a minor flying alone from cali to tampa do i need parent approval?
First off, you need to be 18 to buy a ticket ( unless you go online but it will present other problem later). Secondly, once at the airport, when checking in, you will need a parent or guardian with. I don't know any airline that will let someone under 18 fly without parental permission.
I would get a signed and notarized statement saying you have your parents permission to go from point A to point B and from date 1 to date 2.
Without that you could be detained by the police until they find out you have permission. It really applies when you cross state lines.
Depending on the airline your going on you may need parent aproval, You should tell us what airline your flying on. If you want i can give you a more in depth answer if you tell who you are flying with etc.. my email is captianjon0527@gmail.com
Yes you'll parents will need to approve it and pay extra to have you fly as an unaccompanied minor. There will also need to be someone to pick you up from wherever you land that is on your parents approval pick up list.I am a minor flying alone from cali to tampa do i need parent approval?
First off, you need to be 18 to buy a ticket ( unless you go online but it will present other problem later). Secondly, once at the airport, when checking in, you will need a parent or guardian with. I don't know any airline that will let someone under 18 fly without parental permission.
I would get a signed and notarized statement saying you have your parents permission to go from point A to point B and from date 1 to date 2.
Without that you could be detained by the police until they find out you have permission. It really applies when you cross state lines.
Depending on the airline your going on you may need parent aproval, You should tell us what airline your flying on. If you want i can give you a more in depth answer if you tell who you are flying with etc.. my email is captianjon0527@gmail.com
How should i convince a parent to let me get xbox live?
i hav played the game at many friends houses and have been begging for a while but they never seem to want to let me so i am looking for something in call of duty tht could somehow benefit something in life.How should i convince a parent to let me get xbox live?
You are less likely do do drugs and get girls pregnant if you sit indoors all dayHow should i convince a parent to let me get xbox live?
Wow um lets see call of duty helps you learn about the army and the history of america and islam and other coutries such as russia and how these places helped each other forces to dish out there enemies.thats all i got.
lol it helps your social life :D
do some chores ?
You are less likely do do drugs and get girls pregnant if you sit indoors all dayHow should i convince a parent to let me get xbox live?
Wow um lets see call of duty helps you learn about the army and the history of america and islam and other coutries such as russia and how these places helped each other forces to dish out there enemies.thats all i got.
lol it helps your social life :D
do some chores ?
Can I find my birth parent by looking in the newspaper?
If I go through the newspaper around the date of my birth, do you think my birth mother will be listed in there as having a baby girl? When births are shown in the paper, is that mandatory, or do people opt to have that they had a baby put in the paper?Can I find my birth parent by looking in the newspaper?
**No**Can I find my birth parent by looking in the newspaper?
Sorry honey, birth announcements are not mandetory. Just parents showing off their babies. Are you comfortable asking your adoptive parents a name? or would they know? If you have a name, search myspace under her name or school she attended if you have any of that info. If you have not asked your parents her name or info, be sure you explain that you are just curious and they are the parents you adore and appreciate. you don't want to hurt their feelings, but I'm sure they would understand and maybe can even help you.
**No**Can I find my birth parent by looking in the newspaper?
Sorry honey, birth announcements are not mandetory. Just parents showing off their babies. Are you comfortable asking your adoptive parents a name? or would they know? If you have a name, search myspace under her name or school she attended if you have any of that info. If you have not asked your parents her name or info, be sure you explain that you are just curious and they are the parents you adore and appreciate. you don't want to hurt their feelings, but I'm sure they would understand and maybe can even help you.
Do you need an actual parent present to get an abortion?
Do you need an actual parent to sign or can you get anyone over 18?Do you need an actual parent present to get an abortion?
Depends where you live, check this out to figure out the laws in your state . . .
http://www.sexetc.org/state *Even if it says you need parental consent, you don't. Call PP and tell them you cannot tell your parents; by law, a judicial bypass must be available to those minors who just cannot get their parents/guardians permission. A judge signs the parental consent acting as a de facto guardian.
If you go to a Planned Parenthood clinic that has a low-income program it can be as cheap as 100$. If you tells them you have no job, no money and no support they will likely have you pay the minimum for the procedure and get donations to cover the rest. 1-800-230-PLAN (1-800-230-7526) to find the Planned Parenthood clinic nearest you. If you are underage it will mostly likely be free.
You have the choice between the pill (which can be taken up to 11weeks, at home or at a friends house) or the vacuum method (in clinic procedure). Personally I used the pill method so I could be at home with my husband but some women want to have the surgical, so it's done and over with when they leave the clinic.
You will be financially screened - usually this goes on the honor system, weight/height taken, blood pressure checked, pricked -fingertip- to check for rH factor and anemia, you will receive an ultrasound or sonogram to determine gestational age. You may be asked if you want to view the image, this is up to you. You will receive antibiotics, anti-nausea tabs and pain meds. Take them ALL. You must finish at the very least your course of antibiotics. Follow all aftercare instructions and go back to your after care appt. This last step is vital, you must go back for your aftercare appt! Abortion begins a new menstrual cycle. You should have a regular period in 4 to 8 weeks.you should have the option of receiving birth control - again this will most likely be free, take it and use it correctly.
Some state medicaid program do pay for it, use this link and figure out if your state covers it. If they do, you can go to ';welfare'; office and get emergency coverage and the state and taxes will help pay for it. http://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/book/c鈥?/a>
I respect that it is your choice and understand that you are probably doing what's best for you. If you have any more questions or want/need to talk about it drop me an email.
It is entirely possible to have an abortion and not feel guilt because you knew it was the right thing to do.
ImNotSorry.net
~Pro-Choice Momma; Have had an abortion %26lt;no regrets%26gt; and I have a 9 month old daughter %26lt;no regrets%26gt;. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.
Abortion: There is a Consensus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsSQiazUv鈥?/a>Do you need an actual parent present to get an abortion?
I live in the UK, And i believe this only applies for thwe americans, could you tell me if i need a parent present in the UK?
thanx
It depends on the state, or country that you are residing in. I know that you are not asking anything else but this, but I have to tell you I would be remiss if I did not say something. Are you VERY sure that you want to abort your baby? Women think it is the easy way out of a situation that they don't want to be in. However, I can tell you it is not the easy way out at all. No I have never had an abortion. however, I counseled women for over 10 years and the a lot of the ones that have had abortions say ';if I only knew the truth before I aborted, I would not have chosen that option';. Also think about your body. Do you realize what an abortion can do to you? It does not just take the life of your child, it can cause problems both physically, emotionally and spiritually. My daughter had to have minor surgery once and I had to sign permission for the surgery, which makes sense right? So think about you, you will be going into a medical clinic, and have a medical procedure done, which most people would call an abortion in today's world, but you don't have to have your parent's permission in some states. What is up with that? They have to have me sign so my daughter could have a cyst removed from her neck, but with an abortion no? Also my daughter had a cough drop in her back pack and they took it away from her at school, because I did not send a note with her to school. What is this world coming too?
Make sure you can handle killing your baby. After it is done you can't take it back. Adoption is better as well---it lets the baby live and a couple that isn't able to have kids do so. Most women end up in counseling or severely depressed afterwards. There are some on here that will say different and I believe they have no heart. The baby has a heartbeat after 17 days, the baby can feel pain after 8 weeks. The people who want to keep it legal call the baby a fetus to dehumanize it. But in the end you are killing an actual baby; she/he may still need you to support her/him until she/he is strong enough to live outside of your uterus and that is how much of the world says it is ok.
If you are a young teen then yes you do!
otherwise,
canada- 18 years and up you do NOT need a parent's consent.
U.S- 21 years up ( i believe ) you do NOT need a paren't consent
other places i am not too sure.
good luck hope this helped or gave you an idea,
although i am not aware of your situation my advice to you is always use protection and/or 2 forms of birth control!! condoms and Birth control pills/ patches., or sermicide. etc. if you can't take action/and be responsible for getting pregnant in the first place you should NOT be having sex. (i'm not trying to be rude, it's just a little piece of advice you should keep in mind)
good luck!
Well you definitely can't use just any random adult. If parental consent is required, it has to be a parent.
If they require a signature it's going to have to be a parents. But in some states they don't require parental consent at all!
That depends on the state you live in. Google ';parental consent laws abortion'; and you'll find out.
It depends. Call Planned Parenthood and ask them.
NO, depends upon country to country law.
whore
Depends where you live, check this out to figure out the laws in your state . . .
http://www.sexetc.org/state *Even if it says you need parental consent, you don't. Call PP and tell them you cannot tell your parents; by law, a judicial bypass must be available to those minors who just cannot get their parents/guardians permission. A judge signs the parental consent acting as a de facto guardian.
If you go to a Planned Parenthood clinic that has a low-income program it can be as cheap as 100$. If you tells them you have no job, no money and no support they will likely have you pay the minimum for the procedure and get donations to cover the rest. 1-800-230-PLAN (1-800-230-7526) to find the Planned Parenthood clinic nearest you. If you are underage it will mostly likely be free.
You have the choice between the pill (which can be taken up to 11weeks, at home or at a friends house) or the vacuum method (in clinic procedure). Personally I used the pill method so I could be at home with my husband but some women want to have the surgical, so it's done and over with when they leave the clinic.
You will be financially screened - usually this goes on the honor system, weight/height taken, blood pressure checked, pricked -fingertip- to check for rH factor and anemia, you will receive an ultrasound or sonogram to determine gestational age. You may be asked if you want to view the image, this is up to you. You will receive antibiotics, anti-nausea tabs and pain meds. Take them ALL. You must finish at the very least your course of antibiotics. Follow all aftercare instructions and go back to your after care appt. This last step is vital, you must go back for your aftercare appt! Abortion begins a new menstrual cycle. You should have a regular period in 4 to 8 weeks.you should have the option of receiving birth control - again this will most likely be free, take it and use it correctly.
Some state medicaid program do pay for it, use this link and figure out if your state covers it. If they do, you can go to ';welfare'; office and get emergency coverage and the state and taxes will help pay for it. http://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/book/c鈥?/a>
I respect that it is your choice and understand that you are probably doing what's best for you. If you have any more questions or want/need to talk about it drop me an email.
It is entirely possible to have an abortion and not feel guilt because you knew it was the right thing to do.
ImNotSorry.net
~Pro-Choice Momma; Have had an abortion %26lt;no regrets%26gt; and I have a 9 month old daughter %26lt;no regrets%26gt;. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.
Abortion: There is a Consensus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsSQiazUv鈥?/a>Do you need an actual parent present to get an abortion?
I live in the UK, And i believe this only applies for thwe americans, could you tell me if i need a parent present in the UK?
thanx
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It depends on the state, or country that you are residing in. I know that you are not asking anything else but this, but I have to tell you I would be remiss if I did not say something. Are you VERY sure that you want to abort your baby? Women think it is the easy way out of a situation that they don't want to be in. However, I can tell you it is not the easy way out at all. No I have never had an abortion. however, I counseled women for over 10 years and the a lot of the ones that have had abortions say ';if I only knew the truth before I aborted, I would not have chosen that option';. Also think about your body. Do you realize what an abortion can do to you? It does not just take the life of your child, it can cause problems both physically, emotionally and spiritually. My daughter had to have minor surgery once and I had to sign permission for the surgery, which makes sense right? So think about you, you will be going into a medical clinic, and have a medical procedure done, which most people would call an abortion in today's world, but you don't have to have your parent's permission in some states. What is up with that? They have to have me sign so my daughter could have a cyst removed from her neck, but with an abortion no? Also my daughter had a cough drop in her back pack and they took it away from her at school, because I did not send a note with her to school. What is this world coming too?
Make sure you can handle killing your baby. After it is done you can't take it back. Adoption is better as well---it lets the baby live and a couple that isn't able to have kids do so. Most women end up in counseling or severely depressed afterwards. There are some on here that will say different and I believe they have no heart. The baby has a heartbeat after 17 days, the baby can feel pain after 8 weeks. The people who want to keep it legal call the baby a fetus to dehumanize it. But in the end you are killing an actual baby; she/he may still need you to support her/him until she/he is strong enough to live outside of your uterus and that is how much of the world says it is ok.
If you are a young teen then yes you do!
otherwise,
canada- 18 years and up you do NOT need a parent's consent.
U.S- 21 years up ( i believe ) you do NOT need a paren't consent
other places i am not too sure.
good luck hope this helped or gave you an idea,
although i am not aware of your situation my advice to you is always use protection and/or 2 forms of birth control!! condoms and Birth control pills/ patches., or sermicide. etc. if you can't take action/and be responsible for getting pregnant in the first place you should NOT be having sex. (i'm not trying to be rude, it's just a little piece of advice you should keep in mind)
good luck!
Well you definitely can't use just any random adult. If parental consent is required, it has to be a parent.
If they require a signature it's going to have to be a parents. But in some states they don't require parental consent at all!
That depends on the state you live in. Google ';parental consent laws abortion'; and you'll find out.
It depends. Call Planned Parenthood and ask them.
NO, depends upon country to country law.
whore
In Virginia, how old does a child have to be to decide which parent to live with?
My son is almost 11 %26amp; his Dad is telling him that he can come live with him when he turns 12. It makes me nervous.In Virginia, how old does a child have to be to decide which parent to live with?
I live in Virginia, and as far as I know a child has to be 13 to be able to make that decision on their own.
I live in Virginia, and as far as I know a child has to be 13 to be able to make that decision on their own.
If god said he would give Michael jackson life again to be your parent?
But both your parents (Mommy and daddy) had to die and take his place would you do it?
Even if god said you could live in his big huge mansion with him and he would took care of you as his child and would buy you whatever you wanted, would you still agree to let your parents die for it?
I couldn't do it, but my friend said she'd let her mother die and take his place so she could get michael back. :(
Family comes first for me. What would you accept god's offer?If god said he would give Michael jackson life again to be your parent?
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wow, tough............... no i won't .... am ok if my parents have 1 less kid, Michael alives again, and be my dad.
but if want me to have my parents gone and Michael back, well even Michael won't want that I'm sureIf god said he would give Michael jackson life again to be your parent?
This is a pretty messed up question. It's emotional for fans I don't see why you felt a need to ask it. No one should be willing to give up someone else for anyone. In a heartbeat I would give my life for him but I wouldn't risk anyone else.
no. i would not want my mom or dad to die. i love michael alot, but i would never do that to my parents i love them to much.
r.i.p michael jackson
Your friend is missing a brain.
I wouldn't let Michael come back to life either way, when your time is up, it's up. Even if he were to come back, it wouldn't be the same.
I love Michael but i couldn't do it.
I love my family they mean a lot to me. :)
Michael is in a better place
It's sad but at least he can rest for once. :')
Of course not.
If it wasn't for my parents, then I wouldn't have known much about Michael. He's their favorite singer. I think that's a selfish thing to do. Two lives for one? No...
I still love Michael though.
I have said this so many times already, but I would not want to tear Michael away from heaven for my own selfish reasons firstly, secondly, I love Michael, but my family comes first.
That's really hard, actually.
Neither of my parents love/ever loved me.
I'm not sure.
Could I live with the guilt?
No I wouldn't.
First off I'm grown, so I wouldn't need anyone raising me anymore.
Second, we are all human and we have to go sometime.
And your friend has issues.
No way. I love Michael, but my family is what is most important to me.
This is just a totally ridiculous question.
No, my parents are awesome, but I love Michael, so he would be a very close second.
My dad is Michael Jackson
no way. i love my parents
ummm.
are you serious.
what kind of question is this.
noooooooo, i love my mom and dad.
f a m - i l y : )lips
Even if god said you could live in his big huge mansion with him and he would took care of you as his child and would buy you whatever you wanted, would you still agree to let your parents die for it?
I couldn't do it, but my friend said she'd let her mother die and take his place so she could get michael back. :(
Family comes first for me. What would you accept god's offer?If god said he would give Michael jackson life again to be your parent?
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wow, tough............... no i won't .... am ok if my parents have 1 less kid, Michael alives again, and be my dad.
but if want me to have my parents gone and Michael back, well even Michael won't want that I'm sureIf god said he would give Michael jackson life again to be your parent?
This is a pretty messed up question. It's emotional for fans I don't see why you felt a need to ask it. No one should be willing to give up someone else for anyone. In a heartbeat I would give my life for him but I wouldn't risk anyone else.
no. i would not want my mom or dad to die. i love michael alot, but i would never do that to my parents i love them to much.
r.i.p michael jackson
Your friend is missing a brain.
I wouldn't let Michael come back to life either way, when your time is up, it's up. Even if he were to come back, it wouldn't be the same.
I love Michael but i couldn't do it.
I love my family they mean a lot to me. :)
Michael is in a better place
It's sad but at least he can rest for once. :')
Of course not.
If it wasn't for my parents, then I wouldn't have known much about Michael. He's their favorite singer. I think that's a selfish thing to do. Two lives for one? No...
I still love Michael though.
I have said this so many times already, but I would not want to tear Michael away from heaven for my own selfish reasons firstly, secondly, I love Michael, but my family comes first.
That's really hard, actually.
Neither of my parents love/ever loved me.
I'm not sure.
Could I live with the guilt?
No I wouldn't.
First off I'm grown, so I wouldn't need anyone raising me anymore.
Second, we are all human and we have to go sometime.
And your friend has issues.
No way. I love Michael, but my family is what is most important to me.
This is just a totally ridiculous question.
No, my parents are awesome, but I love Michael, so he would be a very close second.
My dad is Michael Jackson
no way. i love my parents
ummm.
are you serious.
what kind of question is this.
noooooooo, i love my mom and dad.
f a m - i l y : )
Can I be a foster parent if I am a felon?
I would love to help a child in need of a loving parental figure. Do I have to be married? What is the criteria for being a foster parent?Can I be a foster parent if I am a felon?
If you or any adult residing in your home has been convicted of certain criminal offenses, you cannot be a foster parent. Each adult member of your household will be fingerprinted, and a juvenile records check will be done on each child in your home 12 years of age and older.
Foster parents can be single, married, divorced or separated. However, you must have been in your current marital status for at least 12 months to ensure stability in your relationship.
Can I be a foster parent if I am a felon?
So many rude people. Understand there are different felonies. It is possible for someone to make a mistake.
To the idiots that down the Original poster!!! How dare you judge some one that is willing to open there home to someone in need! Get off your high horses and help someone not put them down! Bless those that try to help. We have all made mistakes in our past some worse than others.
Just because someone made a mistake years ago doesnt mean that they are a horrible person. People change. This person could change a childs life and who knows that kid could have a great impact on this world. Which is more than i can say for you ignorant judgmental people.
I am a convicted felon AND foster a child in my home. I am an honest citizen and made a mistake about 10 years ago. Due to the fact that there are so many children right now that need a good home, DSS is making exceptions to the felony issue. Of course you have to prove and show to them that you
not in most states you cant but its awesome that u are considering! i know people rehabilitate but the state doesn't look at it that way!! I'm not sure if felons can even work at child care centers, maybe you should get involved in church youth programs since you want to help kids, most of the times Church's understand people rehabilitate, and ALWAYS need help in youth programs, this would also help you by church members writing character witness statements to social services
I know they go through your house with a fine tooth comb, and your past and present lifestyle, and finances to be considered in NC to be a foster parent I'm sure each state has different criteria for being a foster parent i would call my local social services for answers!
So the state is supposed to take children away from dangerous environments in order to place them with a felon?
LOL. Sorry, but that was hilarious. I hope this is a joke, because I highly doubt anyone would give an abused child to a felon.
According to this question you have a chronic illness ...so personally i think your a liar or trying to make yourself feel good
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NO. can you ****. hahahaha really ? your really asking this question?
as if there gonna let a felon adopt os foster a child. come on. its called common sense. dont mean to be harsh but....... thats the wayt is
I don't know for sure however I would think if you are a felon that you would not be able to foster a child.
I really doubt it, although the effort is appreciated.
i don't think you would qualify for being a foster parent
just go steal a kid. hell what's one more felony, right.
If you or any adult residing in your home has been convicted of certain criminal offenses, you cannot be a foster parent. Each adult member of your household will be fingerprinted, and a juvenile records check will be done on each child in your home 12 years of age and older.
Foster parents can be single, married, divorced or separated. However, you must have been in your current marital status for at least 12 months to ensure stability in your relationship.
Can I be a foster parent if I am a felon?
So many rude people. Understand there are different felonies. It is possible for someone to make a mistake.
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To the idiots that down the Original poster!!! How dare you judge some one that is willing to open there home to someone in need! Get off your high horses and help someone not put them down! Bless those that try to help. We have all made mistakes in our past some worse than others.
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Just because someone made a mistake years ago doesnt mean that they are a horrible person. People change. This person could change a childs life and who knows that kid could have a great impact on this world. Which is more than i can say for you ignorant judgmental people.
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I am a convicted felon AND foster a child in my home. I am an honest citizen and made a mistake about 10 years ago. Due to the fact that there are so many children right now that need a good home, DSS is making exceptions to the felony issue. Of course you have to prove and show to them that you
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not in most states you cant but its awesome that u are considering! i know people rehabilitate but the state doesn't look at it that way!! I'm not sure if felons can even work at child care centers, maybe you should get involved in church youth programs since you want to help kids, most of the times Church's understand people rehabilitate, and ALWAYS need help in youth programs, this would also help you by church members writing character witness statements to social services
I know they go through your house with a fine tooth comb, and your past and present lifestyle, and finances to be considered in NC to be a foster parent I'm sure each state has different criteria for being a foster parent i would call my local social services for answers!
So the state is supposed to take children away from dangerous environments in order to place them with a felon?
LOL. Sorry, but that was hilarious. I hope this is a joke, because I highly doubt anyone would give an abused child to a felon.
According to this question you have a chronic illness ...so personally i think your a liar or trying to make yourself feel good
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NO. can you ****. hahahaha really ? your really asking this question?
as if there gonna let a felon adopt os foster a child. come on. its called common sense. dont mean to be harsh but....... thats the wayt is
I don't know for sure however I would think if you are a felon that you would not be able to foster a child.
I really doubt it, although the effort is appreciated.
i don't think you would qualify for being a foster parent
just go steal a kid. hell what's one more felony, right.
What part of being a parent make you cry the most?
What part of parenthood is most touching?What part of being a parent make you cry the most?
my sons telling me i'm the best cook (when everyone disagrees)
my daughter telling me i'm beautiful (when she's the fairest of them all)
my youngest waking me up at 5am and says';mom, are you asleep?';
finishing doing whatever i was doing and going to the boys room and see all four of my kids laughing with each other making jokes and being silly, totally unaware i'm eyeing them from the corner. then i KNOW they are true friends and they'll be there for each other. from cradle to the grave, they will love and care for each other. NOW that has me tearing up right now!What part of being a parent make you cry the most?
well l always ask myself what did l do right for god to give me 2 of the greatest kids in the world. l am bless everyday and wont miss a moment of there life. even though l am there mother for and most part l am there best friend as well. they r the best and they make u feel great most of the times , but they r spoil. l love with all my heart. l love most when they say hey mom can we talk and even though they know sometimes l might not be to happy with whatever it is but we work on it together instead of them being scared to come to me and talking to me and instead talking to some other parent. u have to be there when they fall and be there when they r happy , but sometimes u have to let them fall so they can learn or grow from it , and get up on there own and they will thank u for that one day u hope anyway lol. my husband is in iraq , there father and has been there for almost 2yrs so we have to be a team and help each other out at times. but to be honest with u all l am terrified of something happening to my husband but never will l let my kids know that. l wish he was home. we miss him
when your children excel, when they laugh together, when they help each other, when they say thank you out of the blue just for being there mom, when they give you a kiss, or hug, when they get you a gift that they really put thought into, i love being a parent, everything my children do and say is so amazing to me, i look at them interact together from a distance and wonder what i have done to be so blessed
When my children were little and mommy was the center of their universe and no one could take your place. I know they still love me but I miss the times when they were little and everything you did was like the greatest thing to them. You could see in their eyes how much they loved and adored you. All three of my children are grown up now but I have a grandson who just turned two so now we get to see how every new thing amazes him and how he just adores his mommy. It brings back memories of how my children were and that brings tears to my eyes.
What part of being a parent make you cry the most? The Bills
When we have a day that all 4 children get along. When the kids say Mom your pretty. Or Mom we love you bunches. Anything that makes me smile. Or even when I see them sharing with other kids. It makes me think, wow we are doing something right.
My daughter's first dance recital, I saw her on the stage, in her costume, doing the routines she'd worked so hard to learn, in fact I've cried at all of her recitals. And the first and last day of Kindergarten, I was a wreck, and then the 1st day of 1st grade I cried again!
When you help them do little things and they're so grateful for it.And they look into your eyes and say thank you mommy,or I love you mommy.
With seven kids there are too many to mention but heres a taster;
My step daughters getting accepted to the colleges they wanted,we all just cried and cried with joy.
My 14yr old taking a girl on his first date, being made captain of the football team, getting good grades after two years if bad grades.
My 12yr old making me presents like a family prtrait for our bedroom and always giving me a cuddle when im stressing out.
My 5yr old waking up dry and saying mommy im a guy now, holding his little brothers hand as they walk into school.
My 3yr old singing christmas songs for all our relatives,painting pictues for me and my husband practically every day,falling asleep under the christmas tree waiting for santa,
My 17month olds first steps,first smile and his hearty little laugh.
The day I married my husband and bacame an immediate mother to two beautiful little girls, the day we were told we were pregnant with all five of our kids, the days on which they were born healthy and every day that they smile and tell me they are happy.
when they are disappointed
This may seem a little strange, but the most touching thing for me is the way my Mom and my two girls just love each other so much. I know it won't last forever, so I enjoy it. Gramma spends lot's of time with them playing. I remember how special it was and how I had so much fun with my grandfather and it tickles me that my girls have such a special grandparent. I love that my Mom is so interested and involved with my kids.
My daughter, who will be a year old in Feb, starting giving me hugs about a month ago. She can be so charming! She always wants to share her cheerios with me (tries to shove them in my mouth) and gives me random kisses throughout the day. Some nights before bedtime when I am holding her I get a little emotional and sometimes shed a few tears, she is most affectionate before bed and is such a big sweetheart, she just hugs me and hugs me and babbles on and on to me. Babies are wonderful. It's amazing how fast their personalities develop!
Every new milestone my kids have makes my cry~ mainly happy tears. When my oldest son turned 9 I cried because he was half way to being able to move out. When each one of my kids said their first word, took their first steps, started their first day of school, etc...~ they have all made me cry. But, everything my kids do is astonishing and touching to me!
All parts.Today I am feeling emotional because today is the first day of the final year at primary school fo my 12 year old daughter.Its hard watching her grow up because she is turning into a beautiful young teenager.Soon she will be moving up to high school..
My daughter's graduation from preschool...as well as her first day of kindergarten. She didn't want me taking her to school, she wanted to ride the bus. She instructed me to stay in our driveway while she walked to the bus stop by herself. More recently, it was her ordering her first glass of wine in a restaurant and ';flashing'; her ID...it was her 21st birthday.
when I have to discipline..(grounding and taking privileges away)..... and when I have to ';Tough Love';.
The most touching is when we give hugs. When they say ';Thank you';, ';I love you';, when I am sick and they say ';mom, can I get you anything';, ';when they do something without being asked. When they made good decisions/choices.When they ask for my advice.. When they take my advice.
i cried the most when I realized I made a huge mistake in parenting, and I had been doing it for awhile. I cried because of what I was teaching my kids. I cried happy tears when they made me birthday/Christmas gifts and stayed up late doing it.
my sons telling me i'm the best cook (when everyone disagrees)
my daughter telling me i'm beautiful (when she's the fairest of them all)
my youngest waking me up at 5am and says';mom, are you asleep?';
finishing doing whatever i was doing and going to the boys room and see all four of my kids laughing with each other making jokes and being silly, totally unaware i'm eyeing them from the corner. then i KNOW they are true friends and they'll be there for each other. from cradle to the grave, they will love and care for each other. NOW that has me tearing up right now!What part of being a parent make you cry the most?
well l always ask myself what did l do right for god to give me 2 of the greatest kids in the world. l am bless everyday and wont miss a moment of there life. even though l am there mother for and most part l am there best friend as well. they r the best and they make u feel great most of the times , but they r spoil. l love with all my heart. l love most when they say hey mom can we talk and even though they know sometimes l might not be to happy with whatever it is but we work on it together instead of them being scared to come to me and talking to me and instead talking to some other parent. u have to be there when they fall and be there when they r happy , but sometimes u have to let them fall so they can learn or grow from it , and get up on there own and they will thank u for that one day u hope anyway lol. my husband is in iraq , there father and has been there for almost 2yrs so we have to be a team and help each other out at times. but to be honest with u all l am terrified of something happening to my husband but never will l let my kids know that. l wish he was home. we miss him
when your children excel, when they laugh together, when they help each other, when they say thank you out of the blue just for being there mom, when they give you a kiss, or hug, when they get you a gift that they really put thought into, i love being a parent, everything my children do and say is so amazing to me, i look at them interact together from a distance and wonder what i have done to be so blessed
When my children were little and mommy was the center of their universe and no one could take your place. I know they still love me but I miss the times when they were little and everything you did was like the greatest thing to them. You could see in their eyes how much they loved and adored you. All three of my children are grown up now but I have a grandson who just turned two so now we get to see how every new thing amazes him and how he just adores his mommy. It brings back memories of how my children were and that brings tears to my eyes.
What part of being a parent make you cry the most? The Bills
When we have a day that all 4 children get along. When the kids say Mom your pretty. Or Mom we love you bunches. Anything that makes me smile. Or even when I see them sharing with other kids. It makes me think, wow we are doing something right.
My daughter's first dance recital, I saw her on the stage, in her costume, doing the routines she'd worked so hard to learn, in fact I've cried at all of her recitals. And the first and last day of Kindergarten, I was a wreck, and then the 1st day of 1st grade I cried again!
When you help them do little things and they're so grateful for it.And they look into your eyes and say thank you mommy,or I love you mommy.
With seven kids there are too many to mention but heres a taster;
My step daughters getting accepted to the colleges they wanted,we all just cried and cried with joy.
My 14yr old taking a girl on his first date, being made captain of the football team, getting good grades after two years if bad grades.
My 12yr old making me presents like a family prtrait for our bedroom and always giving me a cuddle when im stressing out.
My 5yr old waking up dry and saying mommy im a guy now, holding his little brothers hand as they walk into school.
My 3yr old singing christmas songs for all our relatives,painting pictues for me and my husband practically every day,falling asleep under the christmas tree waiting for santa,
My 17month olds first steps,first smile and his hearty little laugh.
The day I married my husband and bacame an immediate mother to two beautiful little girls, the day we were told we were pregnant with all five of our kids, the days on which they were born healthy and every day that they smile and tell me they are happy.
when they are disappointed
This may seem a little strange, but the most touching thing for me is the way my Mom and my two girls just love each other so much. I know it won't last forever, so I enjoy it. Gramma spends lot's of time with them playing. I remember how special it was and how I had so much fun with my grandfather and it tickles me that my girls have such a special grandparent. I love that my Mom is so interested and involved with my kids.
My daughter, who will be a year old in Feb, starting giving me hugs about a month ago. She can be so charming! She always wants to share her cheerios with me (tries to shove them in my mouth) and gives me random kisses throughout the day. Some nights before bedtime when I am holding her I get a little emotional and sometimes shed a few tears, she is most affectionate before bed and is such a big sweetheart, she just hugs me and hugs me and babbles on and on to me. Babies are wonderful. It's amazing how fast their personalities develop!
Every new milestone my kids have makes my cry~ mainly happy tears. When my oldest son turned 9 I cried because he was half way to being able to move out. When each one of my kids said their first word, took their first steps, started their first day of school, etc...~ they have all made me cry. But, everything my kids do is astonishing and touching to me!
All parts.Today I am feeling emotional because today is the first day of the final year at primary school fo my 12 year old daughter.Its hard watching her grow up because she is turning into a beautiful young teenager.Soon she will be moving up to high school..
My daughter's graduation from preschool...as well as her first day of kindergarten. She didn't want me taking her to school, she wanted to ride the bus. She instructed me to stay in our driveway while she walked to the bus stop by herself. More recently, it was her ordering her first glass of wine in a restaurant and ';flashing'; her ID...it was her 21st birthday.
when I have to discipline..(grounding and taking privileges away)..... and when I have to ';Tough Love';.
The most touching is when we give hugs. When they say ';Thank you';, ';I love you';, when I am sick and they say ';mom, can I get you anything';, ';when they do something without being asked. When they made good decisions/choices.When they ask for my advice.. When they take my advice.
i cried the most when I realized I made a huge mistake in parenting, and I had been doing it for awhile. I cried because of what I was teaching my kids. I cried happy tears when they made me birthday/Christmas gifts and stayed up late doing it.
How to get through my parent's divorce?
My parents are going to get a divorce, and though I understand why, it still hurts. I have one brother, but he is a few years older and doesn't like talking about it. I want to talk about it with my friends, but none of my close friends have divorced parents, and I don't know if they would understand my feelings. What should i do?How to get through my parent's divorce?
You should ask any of your parents to take you to a Counselor. There won't be a better advise than from somebody who is a Specialist. No friends or relatives will help you better than going to Counseling. You'll see it will help you tons!! Good Luck!!How to get through my parent's divorce?
when my parents split i was 18 and although i knew why, it still hurt. my mother brought me to a counselor, i only went 3 times, but i have to say that it really did help. i had friends with divorced parents, but i was so hurt, i didnt want to talk about my hurt with my friends, so a stranger really helped.
a divorce really is the worst especially because your mature enough to understand what its about. i cried alot, more then my parents i think, my brother and sister, well their lives both got messed up in different ways, they both lashed out, it was not good, and is still not great 5 years later.
Talk to a counselor at school. They will have dealt with this issue before and will be able to help you through it. Good luck
I write my feelings and then burn the papers.....it helps to get it off my chest and cannot be read by others. It is very cleansing.
You should ask any of your parents to take you to a Counselor. There won't be a better advise than from somebody who is a Specialist. No friends or relatives will help you better than going to Counseling. You'll see it will help you tons!! Good Luck!!How to get through my parent's divorce?
when my parents split i was 18 and although i knew why, it still hurt. my mother brought me to a counselor, i only went 3 times, but i have to say that it really did help. i had friends with divorced parents, but i was so hurt, i didnt want to talk about my hurt with my friends, so a stranger really helped.
a divorce really is the worst especially because your mature enough to understand what its about. i cried alot, more then my parents i think, my brother and sister, well their lives both got messed up in different ways, they both lashed out, it was not good, and is still not great 5 years later.
Talk to a counselor at school. They will have dealt with this issue before and will be able to help you through it. Good luck
I write my feelings and then burn the papers.....it helps to get it off my chest and cannot be read by others. It is very cleansing.
If your 18 can your parent call the police if you left to a different state without permission?
ohkaye so my friend is 18 and she wants to go visit her boyfriend in a different state but she still live swith her parents and she thinks if she leaves without there permission that her mom can call the police.and im not sure or not.If your 18 can your parent call the police if you left to a different state without permission?
No, in fact if her parents call the police for some sort of matter like this, they may receive a ticket.If your 18 can your parent call the police if you left to a different state without permission?
Yes that is pretty much it. She is 18 and can do as she wishes.
But upon return she is screwed if the car is in the parents name, she is on her parents insurance and all of that. She needs a place to live right? The major thing is she will have broken her parents trust so if she ever needs anything they will probably not be quick to help out. Not to mention that the relationship with her parents itself will be screwed for years.
It is a lot to give up to just go see some guy.
She can leave and no they can't have the police retrieve her. They can ask them to do a health and welfare check on her and the cops will show up at the door to check on her. If she's going to defy her parents this way, she may want to start thinking of where she's going to live when she comes back.
Her mom can call. The police will respond. Probably call mom back, ';the idiot is ok.';
Then your friend will have to deal with angry parents at some point upon her [hopefully] safe return.
Act of defiance or independence- bad move either way. Tell the mom. You live at home you still play by home rules.
Her mom can always call the police. However, the police cannot do anything about her leaving. Her mother, on the other hand can. Mom is perfectly within her rights to throw her out - now that she's 18, Mom has no legal obligations for her.
Yes, the parents can call the police, but they will probably ignore it, unless she is breaking some felony law.
Sure, she can leave anytime she wants.
But they can report a missing person if they don't know.
Also, if it is THEIR car, they can deny her permission and report it stolen.
They can't call the cops for her leaving the state per se, but if she is, say, driving her parents car out of state (or anywhere) without their permission they can!
As long as she's 18 she leave whenever she wants. But if it were me I would tell my parents so they wouldn't call the cops to report a missing person
Nope she's18 years of age you are now a legal adult and your parents no longer control you.
No, in fact if her parents call the police for some sort of matter like this, they may receive a ticket.If your 18 can your parent call the police if you left to a different state without permission?
Yes that is pretty much it. She is 18 and can do as she wishes.
But upon return she is screwed if the car is in the parents name, she is on her parents insurance and all of that. She needs a place to live right? The major thing is she will have broken her parents trust so if she ever needs anything they will probably not be quick to help out. Not to mention that the relationship with her parents itself will be screwed for years.
It is a lot to give up to just go see some guy.
She can leave and no they can't have the police retrieve her. They can ask them to do a health and welfare check on her and the cops will show up at the door to check on her. If she's going to defy her parents this way, she may want to start thinking of where she's going to live when she comes back.
Her mom can call. The police will respond. Probably call mom back, ';the idiot is ok.';
Then your friend will have to deal with angry parents at some point upon her [hopefully] safe return.
Act of defiance or independence- bad move either way. Tell the mom. You live at home you still play by home rules.
Her mom can always call the police. However, the police cannot do anything about her leaving. Her mother, on the other hand can. Mom is perfectly within her rights to throw her out - now that she's 18, Mom has no legal obligations for her.
Yes, the parents can call the police, but they will probably ignore it, unless she is breaking some felony law.
Sure, she can leave anytime she wants.
But they can report a missing person if they don't know.
Also, if it is THEIR car, they can deny her permission and report it stolen.
They can't call the cops for her leaving the state per se, but if she is, say, driving her parents car out of state (or anywhere) without their permission they can!
As long as she's 18 she leave whenever she wants. But if it were me I would tell my parents so they wouldn't call the cops to report a missing person
Nope she's18 years of age you are now a legal adult and your parents no longer control you.
Exactly how old do you need to be in order to decide which parent you want to reside with?
I don't want to live with my mom anymore, and I want to live with my Dad. Its not like my mom is a bad mom its just I want to move to my dads house. My mom said I don't have a choice and I have to live with her unless shes a bad mother, and that mothers always have full custody of the children after a divorce...Is that true? or do I have rights?Exactly how old do you need to be in order to decide which parent you want to reside with?
A judge will listen to any age if they show maturity and will give consideration to your desires.!~!Exactly how old do you need to be in order to decide which parent you want to reside with?
There are bunch of legalities that depend of this. Assuming the judge was ready to listen to you, 13 years and on.
A judge will listen to any age if they show maturity and will give consideration to your desires.!~!Exactly how old do you need to be in order to decide which parent you want to reside with?
There are bunch of legalities that depend of this. Assuming the judge was ready to listen to you, 13 years and on.
I wrote a Dialogue in English and there is one part that my parent does not get do u think it makes seance?
My essay is about moving this is one part of the essay my mom did not get. '; I will stand to now and not think about my future in this house';. This means that i will stay in the present and not think about my future in my new house cuz i don't like it. My mom think it does not make sence does it?I wrote a Dialogue in English and there is one part that my parent does not get do u think it makes seance?
It doesn't make any sense. ';Stand to'; is not a proper construction.
You might say: ';I will stay in the moment and not think about my future in this house.';
Say what you mean. It's makes writing much easier.I wrote a Dialogue in English and there is one part that my parent does not get do u think it makes seance?
No, it actually isn't correct. I think you should say, ';I will stay in the now and not think about my future.';lips
It doesn't make any sense. ';Stand to'; is not a proper construction.
You might say: ';I will stay in the moment and not think about my future in this house.';
Say what you mean. It's makes writing much easier.I wrote a Dialogue in English and there is one part that my parent does not get do u think it makes seance?
No, it actually isn't correct. I think you should say, ';I will stay in the now and not think about my future.';
Should i tell the other parent if their child is teaching my child bad words?
Both children are 4 years old. The friend is a boy who learned the word ';idiot'; from the movie Cars. I know his mom has spoken to him about not using that word.
This morning, my daughter shocked me by calling someone an idiot!! She said she heard that from this particular friend.
Should I meantion this to the other mom??? If so, how should I say it?Should i tell the other parent if their child is teaching my child bad words?
Since the mom already knows it's a problem, I would leave it alone. Just explain to your daughter that it's not a nice word for her to use. If the mom didn't know about it or you weren't sure, I'd say to mention it. There was a little boy my mom used to watch who had picked up some really bad language and used some of it. Thank goodness my son wasn't paying any attention because he is one to repeat bad words over and over when he hears them especially if I tell him not to. With the other little boy, I just told him it wasn't a nice word and please don't say that, and he didn't say it anymore. I did mention it to his parents because I thought they might not be aware of the problem, and they weren't. They didn't get upset with me for telling them. I just told them he had picked up a few choice words and repeated what I had heard him say. They actually thanked me for letting them know.Should i tell the other parent if their child is teaching my child bad words?
You could, but really she could have picked it up from anywhere now a day and there is not much you can do to ';prove'; she picked it up at her home. If you feel that strongly about it then go ahead and mention it to the other child's Mom.
But to be completely honest, your child and this other woman's child could have heard ';idiot'; from the guy next door or even another child on the play ground.
Please don't place the blame on a movie. Idiot is one word the is a lot better than some a child could pick up.
I'd say also to tell your daughter that the word ';idiot'; is mean and will not be used in your home. Tell her if she calls you or anyone else something like that again that there will be a punishment to follow. Personally I believe that since your daughter knew to use the word as an insult towards someone that she already knew it was wrong.
YOu cant block out the negative words from the outside world to your children. I have 3.5 y/o 's and when they use language that is not appropriate then I tell them that ';we do not talk like that.'; They picked up the ';na na na na naaa na'; at nursery school, and after our talk about we dont talk like that and it is not nice, they stopped it. ( We were out for ice cream last night and a group of children said that little saying and my girls just looked at them like they could not believe they were doing it.) But, be consistant or it will not work.
I think that mentioning it to the other mom would not really solve the issue that you are facing.
Good luck.
Try to say it lightly and not in an accusatory way. next time you're talking to her say something like
';I had no idea how easily kids pick up words! Ya know my kid called someone and idiot and said that she heard it from your kid who heard it in the movie Cars?! Pretty crazy how a Disney movie can teach 2 kids something like that!';
Keep it light and see what she says. Realistically, your daughter WILL hear those words on the playground but it's nice of you to let the boy's mother know.
no. if his mother has already spoken to her child then she is aware of it and will think your trying to perfect her imperfect child. just make sure yours understands it is bad. if the words get worse and your child starts using more then i would talk to her about it.
Idiot is not a bad word. It maybe used negatively towards a person but there are worse words they could be saying. Leave it alone.
If you know the mom is already working on the problem, I don't really see a point in bringing it up.
no the other mother would only get offended and it could cost your friendship
This morning, my daughter shocked me by calling someone an idiot!! She said she heard that from this particular friend.
Should I meantion this to the other mom??? If so, how should I say it?Should i tell the other parent if their child is teaching my child bad words?
Since the mom already knows it's a problem, I would leave it alone. Just explain to your daughter that it's not a nice word for her to use. If the mom didn't know about it or you weren't sure, I'd say to mention it. There was a little boy my mom used to watch who had picked up some really bad language and used some of it. Thank goodness my son wasn't paying any attention because he is one to repeat bad words over and over when he hears them especially if I tell him not to. With the other little boy, I just told him it wasn't a nice word and please don't say that, and he didn't say it anymore. I did mention it to his parents because I thought they might not be aware of the problem, and they weren't. They didn't get upset with me for telling them. I just told them he had picked up a few choice words and repeated what I had heard him say. They actually thanked me for letting them know.Should i tell the other parent if their child is teaching my child bad words?
You could, but really she could have picked it up from anywhere now a day and there is not much you can do to ';prove'; she picked it up at her home. If you feel that strongly about it then go ahead and mention it to the other child's Mom.
But to be completely honest, your child and this other woman's child could have heard ';idiot'; from the guy next door or even another child on the play ground.
Please don't place the blame on a movie. Idiot is one word the is a lot better than some a child could pick up.
I'd say also to tell your daughter that the word ';idiot'; is mean and will not be used in your home. Tell her if she calls you or anyone else something like that again that there will be a punishment to follow. Personally I believe that since your daughter knew to use the word as an insult towards someone that she already knew it was wrong.
YOu cant block out the negative words from the outside world to your children. I have 3.5 y/o 's and when they use language that is not appropriate then I tell them that ';we do not talk like that.'; They picked up the ';na na na na naaa na'; at nursery school, and after our talk about we dont talk like that and it is not nice, they stopped it. ( We were out for ice cream last night and a group of children said that little saying and my girls just looked at them like they could not believe they were doing it.) But, be consistant or it will not work.
I think that mentioning it to the other mom would not really solve the issue that you are facing.
Good luck.
Try to say it lightly and not in an accusatory way. next time you're talking to her say something like
';I had no idea how easily kids pick up words! Ya know my kid called someone and idiot and said that she heard it from your kid who heard it in the movie Cars?! Pretty crazy how a Disney movie can teach 2 kids something like that!';
Keep it light and see what she says. Realistically, your daughter WILL hear those words on the playground but it's nice of you to let the boy's mother know.
no. if his mother has already spoken to her child then she is aware of it and will think your trying to perfect her imperfect child. just make sure yours understands it is bad. if the words get worse and your child starts using more then i would talk to her about it.
Idiot is not a bad word. It maybe used negatively towards a person but there are worse words they could be saying. Leave it alone.
If you know the mom is already working on the problem, I don't really see a point in bringing it up.
no the other mother would only get offended and it could cost your friendship
How do I get the best interest rate for an auto purchase of an 06 vehicle? My credit is not good. A parent wil?
will cosign in order to secure the $30K loan and the best interest rate. I plan on going through a credit union for good loan rate.
Any more advice?
I will get the 06 land rover by paying a car lot owner to go buy one at auction for me. Advice on that? Thank you.How do I get the best interest rate for an auto purchase of an 06 vehicle? My credit is not good. A parent wil?
Credit Unions give far lower interest rates than dealerships or banks. Try getting a quote from credit unions or banks you know with your parents as cosigners. They don't have to be present but they will ask for your parents SS nmber.How do I get the best interest rate for an auto purchase of an 06 vehicle? My credit is not good. A parent wil?
Do you really really really need a 30k car?
Your credit is not good for a reason, hence the need for your parents to co sign.
This sounds like a risky deal for them.
I hope you learned from your past credit mistakes and don't stick them with this 30k albatross.
Any more advice?
I will get the 06 land rover by paying a car lot owner to go buy one at auction for me. Advice on that? Thank you.How do I get the best interest rate for an auto purchase of an 06 vehicle? My credit is not good. A parent wil?
Credit Unions give far lower interest rates than dealerships or banks. Try getting a quote from credit unions or banks you know with your parents as cosigners. They don't have to be present but they will ask for your parents SS nmber.How do I get the best interest rate for an auto purchase of an 06 vehicle? My credit is not good. A parent wil?
Do you really really really need a 30k car?
Your credit is not good for a reason, hence the need for your parents to co sign.
This sounds like a risky deal for them.
I hope you learned from your past credit mistakes and don't stick them with this 30k albatross.
How much money would my parent have to pay if i went to school in a town that they do not live in?
I am fifteen and I live in new york with my family but i will soon be moving in with one of my close friends and her family down south. So if i am a resident of the town but my parents are not, will my parents have to pay the school money since they don't live there? Please help!How much money would my parent have to pay if i went to school in a town that they do not live in?
If you have a physical address in that town then you have nothing to worry about. (You have to have lived there for 6 months....but I know many who have gotten away with it) But if you can't use your friends address then your parents will have to pay out of state taxes.....you can look at an extra 5,000 to 10,000 a year depending on the school you are looking at.How much money would my parent have to pay if i went to school in a town that they do not live in?
that would have to pay an arm and a leg.
If you have a physical address in that town then you have nothing to worry about. (You have to have lived there for 6 months....but I know many who have gotten away with it) But if you can't use your friends address then your parents will have to pay out of state taxes.....you can look at an extra 5,000 to 10,000 a year depending on the school you are looking at.How much money would my parent have to pay if i went to school in a town that they do not live in?
that would have to pay an arm and a leg.
Does anyone know where I can get a tattoo at 17 with a parent permission in southern Cali?
When I was about 15, I was ';in love'; with this idiot and I had his name done on my hip and now I have the money to get a cover up but I need a good place and clean. Anyone wanna help me out?Does anyone know where I can get a tattoo at 17 with a parent permission in southern Cali?
No where, and anyone who posts a shop is setting themselves and that shop up for failure. If a shop is found to be tattoo minors, they can, and will be SHUT DOWN. My two nearest and dearest friends work at tattoo shops. One of which, her 17 year old daughter wants a tattoo, but her mother refuses, she has to wait it out!
Hopefully you learned an important lesson from this. It is never a good idea to get names, or initals of a ';boyfriend'; on your body!
Wait another year, save up some money, and plan out a killer cover-up! Something that will erase all the bad, and leave you with a stunning tattoo!Does anyone know where I can get a tattoo at 17 with a parent permission in southern Cali?
no where the closest is the State of Nevada
It's illegal for minors to get tattoos in Cali even with consent
It was deemed immoral and illegal a few years ago
Sorry
No where, and anyone who posts a shop is setting themselves and that shop up for failure. If a shop is found to be tattoo minors, they can, and will be SHUT DOWN. My two nearest and dearest friends work at tattoo shops. One of which, her 17 year old daughter wants a tattoo, but her mother refuses, she has to wait it out!
Hopefully you learned an important lesson from this. It is never a good idea to get names, or initals of a ';boyfriend'; on your body!
Wait another year, save up some money, and plan out a killer cover-up! Something that will erase all the bad, and leave you with a stunning tattoo!Does anyone know where I can get a tattoo at 17 with a parent permission in southern Cali?
no where the closest is the State of Nevada
It's illegal for minors to get tattoos in Cali even with consent
It was deemed immoral and illegal a few years ago
Sorry
How do Radical Feminism explain the contribution being a mother in a lone parent family has upon her life?
her life chancesHow do Radical Feminism explain the contribution being a mother in a lone parent family has upon her life?
Radical feminists have no logical or sane contribution to make to any academic debate. Imagine if I went round shouting exactly the same diatribes as they do, just swapping round the genders, I would be locked up or at least villified as a sexist pig.How do Radical Feminism explain the contribution being a mother in a lone parent family has upon her life?
they don't - they merely burn bras, not write books.
Radical feminists have no logical or sane contribution to make to any academic debate. Imagine if I went round shouting exactly the same diatribes as they do, just swapping round the genders, I would be locked up or at least villified as a sexist pig.How do Radical Feminism explain the contribution being a mother in a lone parent family has upon her life?
they don't - they merely burn bras, not write books.
How Do I Tell My Parent That Fable 2 Is Fine To Get?
First up, I'm 13 (just to let you know), I've played many ';T'; rated games for suggestive themes, and sexual themes.
I've also played many ';M'; rated game for that. It's just because they don't like sexual content.
Any ideas? Also, I can play any game, but the ones with sexual contest.How Do I Tell My Parent That Fable 2 Is Fine To Get?
Fable 2 has sexual content... a fair amount I would say. Nothing graphic visually, but sound wise yes (I think it is rather funny, but if your parents were in the room it would definately be akward). Plus you can pick up prostitutes, get STD's and use condoms...
If your parents dont like sexual content then there isn't a good chance they will let you get this game.
Aside from that, it's not too bad of a game, it's not too gory and is rather fun, but I would say the sexual content makes us at least 1/4 of the game.How Do I Tell My Parent That Fable 2 Is Fine To Get?
well, if you are sure that you can handle the bad parts of the game then explain to them that you can handle it. Or have your parents watch you when you play the game. So they can make sure you don't expolit the sexuel themes. make a plan and explain how the game works and show that the sexuel content isn't bad.
ok well then tell them that this gam is so big that you ';'NEED';' it and all your friends are playing it. it might also help if they say its not good because of some sexual $H** tell them that that is like because some girls in ';THE GAME'' may have underwear on..lips
I've also played many ';M'; rated game for that. It's just because they don't like sexual content.
Any ideas? Also, I can play any game, but the ones with sexual contest.How Do I Tell My Parent That Fable 2 Is Fine To Get?
Fable 2 has sexual content... a fair amount I would say. Nothing graphic visually, but sound wise yes (I think it is rather funny, but if your parents were in the room it would definately be akward). Plus you can pick up prostitutes, get STD's and use condoms...
If your parents dont like sexual content then there isn't a good chance they will let you get this game.
Aside from that, it's not too bad of a game, it's not too gory and is rather fun, but I would say the sexual content makes us at least 1/4 of the game.How Do I Tell My Parent That Fable 2 Is Fine To Get?
well, if you are sure that you can handle the bad parts of the game then explain to them that you can handle it. Or have your parents watch you when you play the game. So they can make sure you don't expolit the sexuel themes. make a plan and explain how the game works and show that the sexuel content isn't bad.
ok well then tell them that this gam is so big that you ';'NEED';' it and all your friends are playing it. it might also help if they say its not good because of some sexual $H** tell them that that is like because some girls in ';THE GAME'' may have underwear on..
Can you ask a step parent to write a letter of recommendation? And also are they able to?
Please no sarcastic answers. And serious inquires only.Can you ask a step parent to write a letter of recommendation? And also are they able to?
If it's not appropriate to use a parent, then step-parents would also fall into that category. It's not about the biological connection, it's because of the relationship that you are assumed to have.Can you ask a step parent to write a letter of recommendation? And also are they able to?
no in college and work applications they are considered to be like parents.
but, parents girlfriends and boyfriends are acceptable.
If it's not appropriate to use a parent, then step-parents would also fall into that category. It's not about the biological connection, it's because of the relationship that you are assumed to have.Can you ask a step parent to write a letter of recommendation? And also are they able to?
no in college and work applications they are considered to be like parents.
but, parents girlfriends and boyfriends are acceptable.
In wisconsin, does a 16 year old have the choice to chose what parent to live with?
because i am trying to find answers to move back with my father. Thank you for information.In wisconsin, does a 16 year old have the choice to chose what parent to live with?
Why do you want to move? Abuse, drugs, abandonment? If there are good compelling reasons, take it to the judge. If you just want to be able to do what ever because he's not on your case all the time, suck it up...wait 2 more years %26amp; live where ever you want.In wisconsin, does a 16 year old have the choice to chose what parent to live with?
Until you are 18 you may not have much legal right.
Why do you want to move? Abuse, drugs, abandonment? If there are good compelling reasons, take it to the judge. If you just want to be able to do what ever because he's not on your case all the time, suck it up...wait 2 more years %26amp; live where ever you want.In wisconsin, does a 16 year old have the choice to chose what parent to live with?
Until you are 18 you may not have much legal right.
How do you tell a parent their kids are too OBESE without them getting offended?
I know two kids, they are not even 10 years old, and they are pretty much obese. They might be considered morbidly obese. They get little to no exercise, and their eating habits are very poor. Mom lets them drink a lot of sodas and high fat foods. I have watched these kids eat, and they eat without really focusing on the food, so they are stuffing themselves mindlessly. I think about these kids' health and body image in the future and it's sickening. What is wrong with people?!How do you tell a parent their kids are too OBESE without them getting offended?
I think that is awful and people like them don't need to have kids because part of being a good parent is making sure your kids are healthy and eat right. I would try to tell the parents that their kids health is going to suffer greatly if they don't get them to a pediatrician and to a weight specialist. You can also look on line and get info on weight loss camps for kids. They have them all over the country. If that is not possible, tell the parents you will watch the kids a few times a week and take them to a gym or YMCA where they have personal trainers. Most gyms and the YMCA have weight loss programs for kids. Good luck!How do you tell a parent their kids are too OBESE without them getting offended?
Your heart is in the right place, but their mom may get offended even if you word it in the kindest possible way. It's a tricky situation. . .tread carefully.
Why don't you try to mind your own business. The mother knows how fat her kids are. If it bothers you, just stay away from them.
Ask them if they've ever seen ';honey we're killing the kids'; (you should maybe watch it first, on TLC network), then talk about the episode you saw
I would assume that the parents already know this, so whats the point?
The parents know, don't worry... it's not your business to say anything to them.
The parents know the kids are obese. That's why they see it only as a criticism of themselves if you tell them about it. They don't know, or don't care, what can be done about it, assuming they wanted to do anything about it.
Most of these parents lie to themselves that either the obesity is natural and out of their control, or that it's a stage that the kids will grow out of.
You almost have to force them to listen to reason, and force them to look at what has happened to other obese kids later in life. And such force does tend to be seen as offensive.
I really dont think it is any of your business!
If you're not a relative I agree with the other's comments, you really don't have a lot of say here. Just make sure your own kids don't end up like that! Try to get these kids instead to do physical activity or offer them fruits and vegetables.
you don't tell them nothing... it's not your business. She probably already knows..... how can you not see a fat kid. Sounds like she is just a bad mom. If you tell her you'll just create a enemy
If you are either close to kids or the parents, or maybe even you deal with the kids like a teacher or something, I would nicely ask to talk to her in private. And just tell her that you are concerned about their health because they seem to eat a lot of junk food and get very little exercise. Try and points out that it can be very unhealty and cause problems for them in the future. But make sure that she knows that you are concerned for them, no just trying to say her kids are fat.
It's terrible we all know but you will probably offend your friend if you interfere. Speak in directly about good health as a topic in general. Be kind.
REPORT THESE PEOPLE TO CHILD SERVICES.
That is child abuse, and child neglect, and negligent endangerment, and all of that stuff.
At the very least someone -else- will tell them that they're being bad parents so you don't have to.
There are some things, however, that are more important than the parents getting offended. Isn't the health of those children more important than some wounded pride? Gather your balls and go give those parents a sharp piece of your mind! Tell them you're going to report them to DCFS or something. Take pamphlets on healthy eating and dieting and stuff. Try to be polite at first - explain ';I've observed the way your children eat and I'm worried';. Don't imply that it is the fault of the parents unless it's necessary. But if they just go, ';Oh, no, Johnny/Janie is just a little plump, it's baby fat'; DO NOT HESITATE to tell them ';Well gee, maybe if you didn't let them constantly ingest junk food they wouldn't be!';
This is a situation where you need to put the health of those children ahead of both your nervousness over confrontation and rudeness and your desire to be kind. Some people just need to be smacked upside the head before they cotton on. Please, please do something. You are witnessing child abuse, and from the tone of your question you knew it, and it bothers you. You already knew what the right thing to do was.
If you can't get the parents to see sense by talking to them logically, I'm serious. Get the authorities involved. At the very least those children don't deserve to suffer because their parents are idiots.
If you are related to them or a friend, you can base your concerns on health. If you're not either, it is none of your business and will only offend. However, if you feel strongly about the issue (and it is prevalent in our society), then get involved in educating kids about it.
you can't tell a parent their kid is fat without offending them.
if they care about their kids being obese they might already know that....
but i know it is sickening, isn't it?
whichever way u will say it it will be taken negatively so mind ur own ps and qs.
well talk to there mother, and see if they can get some help, if they dont get help, they will have very unhealthy lives
you should probably ease a hint about their eating habits and perhaps if you have children encorage physical activity with them other than than maybe you shouldn't be worrying about it
I agree, it's sickening, but unless you are a relative or someone very close to the parents it would probably be counterproductive for you to say anything.
JMHO
They probably think the kids are cute like that. There's nothing much you can do about it, unless you're a family member or medical personnel. Even then, you risk a very hostile reaction.
I think that is awful and people like them don't need to have kids because part of being a good parent is making sure your kids are healthy and eat right. I would try to tell the parents that their kids health is going to suffer greatly if they don't get them to a pediatrician and to a weight specialist. You can also look on line and get info on weight loss camps for kids. They have them all over the country. If that is not possible, tell the parents you will watch the kids a few times a week and take them to a gym or YMCA where they have personal trainers. Most gyms and the YMCA have weight loss programs for kids. Good luck!How do you tell a parent their kids are too OBESE without them getting offended?
Your heart is in the right place, but their mom may get offended even if you word it in the kindest possible way. It's a tricky situation. . .tread carefully.
Why don't you try to mind your own business. The mother knows how fat her kids are. If it bothers you, just stay away from them.
Ask them if they've ever seen ';honey we're killing the kids'; (you should maybe watch it first, on TLC network), then talk about the episode you saw
I would assume that the parents already know this, so whats the point?
The parents know, don't worry... it's not your business to say anything to them.
The parents know the kids are obese. That's why they see it only as a criticism of themselves if you tell them about it. They don't know, or don't care, what can be done about it, assuming they wanted to do anything about it.
Most of these parents lie to themselves that either the obesity is natural and out of their control, or that it's a stage that the kids will grow out of.
You almost have to force them to listen to reason, and force them to look at what has happened to other obese kids later in life. And such force does tend to be seen as offensive.
I really dont think it is any of your business!
If you're not a relative I agree with the other's comments, you really don't have a lot of say here. Just make sure your own kids don't end up like that! Try to get these kids instead to do physical activity or offer them fruits and vegetables.
you don't tell them nothing... it's not your business. She probably already knows..... how can you not see a fat kid. Sounds like she is just a bad mom. If you tell her you'll just create a enemy
If you are either close to kids or the parents, or maybe even you deal with the kids like a teacher or something, I would nicely ask to talk to her in private. And just tell her that you are concerned about their health because they seem to eat a lot of junk food and get very little exercise. Try and points out that it can be very unhealty and cause problems for them in the future. But make sure that she knows that you are concerned for them, no just trying to say her kids are fat.
It's terrible we all know but you will probably offend your friend if you interfere. Speak in directly about good health as a topic in general. Be kind.
REPORT THESE PEOPLE TO CHILD SERVICES.
That is child abuse, and child neglect, and negligent endangerment, and all of that stuff.
At the very least someone -else- will tell them that they're being bad parents so you don't have to.
There are some things, however, that are more important than the parents getting offended. Isn't the health of those children more important than some wounded pride? Gather your balls and go give those parents a sharp piece of your mind! Tell them you're going to report them to DCFS or something. Take pamphlets on healthy eating and dieting and stuff. Try to be polite at first - explain ';I've observed the way your children eat and I'm worried';. Don't imply that it is the fault of the parents unless it's necessary. But if they just go, ';Oh, no, Johnny/Janie is just a little plump, it's baby fat'; DO NOT HESITATE to tell them ';Well gee, maybe if you didn't let them constantly ingest junk food they wouldn't be!';
This is a situation where you need to put the health of those children ahead of both your nervousness over confrontation and rudeness and your desire to be kind. Some people just need to be smacked upside the head before they cotton on. Please, please do something. You are witnessing child abuse, and from the tone of your question you knew it, and it bothers you. You already knew what the right thing to do was.
If you can't get the parents to see sense by talking to them logically, I'm serious. Get the authorities involved. At the very least those children don't deserve to suffer because their parents are idiots.
If you are related to them or a friend, you can base your concerns on health. If you're not either, it is none of your business and will only offend. However, if you feel strongly about the issue (and it is prevalent in our society), then get involved in educating kids about it.
you can't tell a parent their kid is fat without offending them.
if they care about their kids being obese they might already know that....
but i know it is sickening, isn't it?
whichever way u will say it it will be taken negatively so mind ur own ps and qs.
well talk to there mother, and see if they can get some help, if they dont get help, they will have very unhealthy lives
you should probably ease a hint about their eating habits and perhaps if you have children encorage physical activity with them other than than maybe you shouldn't be worrying about it
I agree, it's sickening, but unless you are a relative or someone very close to the parents it would probably be counterproductive for you to say anything.
JMHO
They probably think the kids are cute like that. There's nothing much you can do about it, unless you're a family member or medical personnel. Even then, you risk a very hostile reaction.
I am a graduate early childhood education student and need to interview a parent whose child has autisum.?
I have about ten questions I would like to ask for my research project. If anyone is willing to help me please let me know and I can email my questions to you. Thank you ! AlisonI am a graduate early childhood education student and need to interview a parent whose child has autisum.?
because of HIPAA, you may run into problems with this. contact the local school district with your request and/or use your contacts at the local university.
because of HIPAA, you may run into problems with this. contact the local school district with your request and/or use your contacts at the local university.
How do you confront a parent who has emotionally abused you?
Just ask if you can talk to them, and say EVERYTHING on your mind that has been hurting you they caused. And have a friend you can talk to afterwards, it's going to be rough.How do you confront a parent who has emotionally abused you?
walk up to her/him and say:';stop treating me like this! I am sick of u!And if u don't stop doing it,i'll call the police!!';
maybe like that??lol...How do you confront a parent who has emotionally abused you?
see a doctor.
First you need to decide if you truly want to confront them. List the pros and cons. I chose not to but debated it for a long time.
Next, decide how you want to confront them. Sometimes a letter is good. Sometimes having a counselor with you at the time helps. Sometimes over the phone.
The biggest challenge will be getting them to listen. They won't want to and will end up in the same abusive pattern that is life to them.
And most importantly, have someplace to go afterward that is safe for you emotionally. Even if it's on the phone, even if it is after sending the letter. You'll need the support. Good luck!
You don't. If they have raised you this way, it is engrained in their character and they don't know any different. Confronting matters like this only make it worse... I am going through it right now with abusive and manipulative parents and my doctors' attempts to help THEM, too. My doctors and their's are dumbfounded as to what they can do at this point. It's a pretty pathetic situation, because my parents are complete fakes who would never admit to wrongdoing despite the hell they have put our family through. My doctors can even tell in my parents body language and demeanor the amount of hostility that encompasses our household, yet my parents swear perfection.
Now that the doctors have begun to very gently confront them, the stress levels are even higher and screaming, yelling, and ranting even worse. It just isn't worth it.
i would take someone with me for support also. just remember, you can't take back what you say. once it's out there it's out there. Or you could try writing it all down first too. Good Luck!
walk up to her/him and say:';stop treating me like this! I am sick of u!And if u don't stop doing it,i'll call the police!!';
maybe like that??lol...How do you confront a parent who has emotionally abused you?
see a doctor.
First you need to decide if you truly want to confront them. List the pros and cons. I chose not to but debated it for a long time.
Next, decide how you want to confront them. Sometimes a letter is good. Sometimes having a counselor with you at the time helps. Sometimes over the phone.
The biggest challenge will be getting them to listen. They won't want to and will end up in the same abusive pattern that is life to them.
And most importantly, have someplace to go afterward that is safe for you emotionally. Even if it's on the phone, even if it is after sending the letter. You'll need the support. Good luck!
You don't. If they have raised you this way, it is engrained in their character and they don't know any different. Confronting matters like this only make it worse... I am going through it right now with abusive and manipulative parents and my doctors' attempts to help THEM, too. My doctors and their's are dumbfounded as to what they can do at this point. It's a pretty pathetic situation, because my parents are complete fakes who would never admit to wrongdoing despite the hell they have put our family through. My doctors can even tell in my parents body language and demeanor the amount of hostility that encompasses our household, yet my parents swear perfection.
Now that the doctors have begun to very gently confront them, the stress levels are even higher and screaming, yelling, and ranting even worse. It just isn't worth it.
i would take someone with me for support also. just remember, you can't take back what you say. once it's out there it's out there. Or you could try writing it all down first too. Good Luck!
Examples for saying child stealing when hungry is OK when you have no parent to feed you?
don't listen to abenezer...cannibalism is perfectly acceptable in some parts of the congo.
you eat whoever you want. lolExamples for saying child stealing when hungry is OK when you have no parent to feed you?
what?Examples for saying child stealing when hungry is OK when you have no parent to feed you?
it is not ok to eat a hungry child.
In the native American tradition everything was owned by everyone. What was mine was also yours. People could walk into anothers house and take food.
Christian culture comes from Rome, so European fences and selfish rules apply.lips
you eat whoever you want. lolExamples for saying child stealing when hungry is OK when you have no parent to feed you?
what?Examples for saying child stealing when hungry is OK when you have no parent to feed you?
it is not ok to eat a hungry child.
In the native American tradition everything was owned by everyone. What was mine was also yours. People could walk into anothers house and take food.
Christian culture comes from Rome, so European fences and selfish rules apply.
Would you consider yourself a parent after miscarriage?
My fiancee and I just recently had a miscarriage. We have no other children. We still feel as though we are parents but one of my friends told me that was absurd. She said we can not consider ourselves parents because the child was never born. What do you think?Would you consider yourself a parent after miscarriage?
Even though I had two miscarriages before I had my first child, I did not consider myself a parent until my daughter was born.
It does not mean that I don't wonder what those babies would have been like and how they might have compared to the children I have, but I did not consider myself to be a parent.Would you consider yourself a parent after miscarriage?
I am so very terribly sorry!!! Technically your not a parent on the outside (taking care of her and feeding her and stuff) But you are a parent in your heart. I hope it all works out. Oh! And screw that girl that told u were absurd, she obviously doesn't know the tragedies you have gone through. Good luck ... :)
R.I.P Little baby
No you are parents after a live baby is born and you name it. Sorry but I agree with your friend about your parental concept being absurd. Please don't take me wrong, but maybe you should seek some counseling to help you cope with your loss.
I wouldnt say that you were absurd, but i wouldnt consider you to be a parent either. I hope that things work out for you and you do finally have a baby. I had 3 miscarriages myself and I know how u feel..Good Luck
I think it's good to remember your baby (ultrasound pictures and whatnot) but you can't consider yourselves parents.
No you are not parents, but you can think whatever you want if it makes you feel better.
No. You are not a mother. When you are pregnant with your first they call you mother to be. You are not a mom yet.
Even though I had two miscarriages before I had my first child, I did not consider myself a parent until my daughter was born.
It does not mean that I don't wonder what those babies would have been like and how they might have compared to the children I have, but I did not consider myself to be a parent.Would you consider yourself a parent after miscarriage?
I am so very terribly sorry!!! Technically your not a parent on the outside (taking care of her and feeding her and stuff) But you are a parent in your heart. I hope it all works out. Oh! And screw that girl that told u were absurd, she obviously doesn't know the tragedies you have gone through. Good luck ... :)
R.I.P Little baby
No you are parents after a live baby is born and you name it. Sorry but I agree with your friend about your parental concept being absurd. Please don't take me wrong, but maybe you should seek some counseling to help you cope with your loss.
I wouldnt say that you were absurd, but i wouldnt consider you to be a parent either. I hope that things work out for you and you do finally have a baby. I had 3 miscarriages myself and I know how u feel..Good Luck
I think it's good to remember your baby (ultrasound pictures and whatnot) but you can't consider yourselves parents.
No you are not parents, but you can think whatever you want if it makes you feel better.
No. You are not a mother. When you are pregnant with your first they call you mother to be. You are not a mom yet.
Is it true that kids at the age of 13 can decide which parent they want to reside with? ?
I share joint custody of my 2 children. Although they are 14 %26amp; 15 they have lived with me for 2 years. I have recently filed for child support through Social Service. My ex is fighting this and refuses to help with any bills and has already claimed them on his taxs for last year. I cannot afford an attorney and am seeking any advice I can get. Am I at a losing battle here or and I entitled for support?? Please help!Is it true that kids at the age of 13 can decide which parent they want to reside with? ?
the laws differ from state to state. contact your local dhsIs it true that kids at the age of 13 can decide which parent they want to reside with? ?
I think it depends on the state laws. I have been told by a judge that he won't allow children on the stand to testify until they are 12, so don't even bother seeking sole custody until that time.
Where I live, the child support payments are based on the number of nights the child stays with each parent. I don't know if that method is used elsewhere or not. But if so and the kids stay with you, be sure to document that and have it in a readable form. I don't think you are in a losing battle. There are great on-line resources for the laws in your state. do your homework. Good luck!
I know some people that have joint custody and they get along.
They take turns on the tax thing.
If they want to be tough, they really have to show where they have contributed to 50% of their support for that year.
You have 2 kids and yourself. Just add all the bills food clothing Utilities rent times 3 and they will be the 33 %26amp; 1/3 %.
If yours is higher than what he spends , turn him in for tax fraud.
Claim them yourself, and turn him in for the reward.
i think you can but not sure. you can call 211 from a home line and ask for free legal service they will give you some number and tell ask . good luck!!
if you were 13, could you?
the laws differ from state to state. contact your local dhsIs it true that kids at the age of 13 can decide which parent they want to reside with? ?
I think it depends on the state laws. I have been told by a judge that he won't allow children on the stand to testify until they are 12, so don't even bother seeking sole custody until that time.
Where I live, the child support payments are based on the number of nights the child stays with each parent. I don't know if that method is used elsewhere or not. But if so and the kids stay with you, be sure to document that and have it in a readable form. I don't think you are in a losing battle. There are great on-line resources for the laws in your state. do your homework. Good luck!
I know some people that have joint custody and they get along.
They take turns on the tax thing.
If they want to be tough, they really have to show where they have contributed to 50% of their support for that year.
You have 2 kids and yourself. Just add all the bills food clothing Utilities rent times 3 and they will be the 33 %26amp; 1/3 %.
If yours is higher than what he spends , turn him in for tax fraud.
Claim them yourself, and turn him in for the reward.
i think you can but not sure. you can call 211 from a home line and ask for free legal service they will give you some number and tell ask . good luck!!
if you were 13, could you?
How do you report and parent and drugs?
My cousin's on drugs and she has a daughter, she lives in Las Vegas, and i live in california.
How would i report and my cousin for child endangermentt, and would i be able to take care of my niece?How do you report and parent and drugs?
Google ';nevada child protective services.'; Call or email them today and leave a message. Use their ';hot line'; if possible. It is most important that your niece be safe, whether she is placed with you or not.
Let Nevada CPS know that you would like to be considered for a relative placement. If you wish, you may look for someone in CA in your vicinity who can do a ';home study'; on you. The sooner that is done the sooner you may be able to get custody. Cooperate with Nevada CPS.How do you report and parent and drugs?
Simply using drugs is not child endangerment. Why do you want to steal your cousins baby? Cant have your own?
How would i report and my cousin for child endangermentt, and would i be able to take care of my niece?How do you report and parent and drugs?
Google ';nevada child protective services.'; Call or email them today and leave a message. Use their ';hot line'; if possible. It is most important that your niece be safe, whether she is placed with you or not.
Let Nevada CPS know that you would like to be considered for a relative placement. If you wish, you may look for someone in CA in your vicinity who can do a ';home study'; on you. The sooner that is done the sooner you may be able to get custody. Cooperate with Nevada CPS.How do you report and parent and drugs?
Simply using drugs is not child endangerment. Why do you want to steal your cousins baby? Cant have your own?
Where is a severely retarded 35 year old supposed to go if his parent won't take care of him?
I'm not really talking about me, but a severely retarded or mentally ill person. Mean big time here, not just slightly. Assuming he does not pose a harm to himself or others. Where is he supposed to go if his disability check in only 600 dollars and the cheapest apartment in town is 800 and he is so retarded or mentally ill that he can't work? Where does he go?Where is a severely retarded 35 year old supposed to go if his parent won't take care of him?
Well, some people end up homeless and die someplace, like under a bridge.
Most people get help from social services. In my state (Minnesota) the country provides that help. They are supposed to find you a place to live, and they will take over as a ';representative payee'; for social security if needed, and give the disabled person a small allowance. Often there is HUD government housing that charges rent based on ability to pay, or there is assisted living, or group homes. Depends on how functional you are - I know several developmentally disabled people (mentally retarded) who keep their own apartments, and people with severe mental illnesses, too. Some own their own homes (but I live in a rural area, you can get a house for $40,000). And actually, there are all levels of disability - I get social security disability because I'm bipolar and believe me, it is very severe- but I can fake normal when I have to because I'm smart. And I bet you didn't guess I had severe mental illness until I told you so. Then there are people who are both mentally ill and developmentally disabled, and that is terrible. In states where social services are not that good, people can and do end up homeless, and can die for lack of help.Where is a severely retarded 35 year old supposed to go if his parent won't take care of him?
To a group home or a similar facility.
When you say that his parent won't take care of him - is this person being neglected? If so, you should act quickly so that this person isn't harmed. Look in the phone book under mental health centers or counseling centers. If you can't find what you're looking for, call one of the community mental health centers and they should be able to tell you where the nearest group home is. Hope this helps.
Well, some people end up homeless and die someplace, like under a bridge.
Most people get help from social services. In my state (Minnesota) the country provides that help. They are supposed to find you a place to live, and they will take over as a ';representative payee'; for social security if needed, and give the disabled person a small allowance. Often there is HUD government housing that charges rent based on ability to pay, or there is assisted living, or group homes. Depends on how functional you are - I know several developmentally disabled people (mentally retarded) who keep their own apartments, and people with severe mental illnesses, too. Some own their own homes (but I live in a rural area, you can get a house for $40,000). And actually, there are all levels of disability - I get social security disability because I'm bipolar and believe me, it is very severe- but I can fake normal when I have to because I'm smart. And I bet you didn't guess I had severe mental illness until I told you so. Then there are people who are both mentally ill and developmentally disabled, and that is terrible. In states where social services are not that good, people can and do end up homeless, and can die for lack of help.Where is a severely retarded 35 year old supposed to go if his parent won't take care of him?
To a group home or a similar facility.
When you say that his parent won't take care of him - is this person being neglected? If so, you should act quickly so that this person isn't harmed. Look in the phone book under mental health centers or counseling centers. If you can't find what you're looking for, call one of the community mental health centers and they should be able to tell you where the nearest group home is. Hope this helps.
Should I attempt to carry a child that has been removed from the parent 9mths into the year?
I normally carry my neice and she had a baby. I have been helping her with him since he was born. Her mother called child services on her and the baby was removed. should i still try to carru the child on my taxes or not?Should I attempt to carry a child that has been removed from the parent 9mths into the year?
Check the IRS web site. I don't know if it has changed but it used to be if you supported them for 6 months or more than you could claim them.Should I attempt to carry a child that has been removed from the parent 9mths into the year?
Yes you can. If you supported the child financially at least 6 months out of the year with at least 50% of their finances he is yours to claim.
Check the IRS web site. I don't know if it has changed but it used to be if you supported them for 6 months or more than you could claim them.Should I attempt to carry a child that has been removed from the parent 9mths into the year?
Yes you can. If you supported the child financially at least 6 months out of the year with at least 50% of their finances he is yours to claim.
How can i convince a parent to switch their children's school?
Ok how can i convince two parents to let thier son switch schools? Also is it possible to get past a contract that says you have to stay there for a full year?How can i convince a parent to switch their children's school?
It is nobody's business except for the parents what school their child attends. I don't know of any school that requires a contract. That is just odd. How can i convince a parent to switch their children's school?
I'd have to answer your question with a question: why?
If you are a girlfriend who wants to go to the same school as your boyfriend, you haven't got a chance.
Is there something bad (gangs, drugs, poor quality of education) at the school? If that is the case then use those to bolster your argument.
Of course there is no contract to ';make'; parents keep them there a year. What would you do, sue them?
Remember the most important word in your question: ';parent';. Unless you are the other biological parent you will not have a leg to stand on, so you will need to be extra persuasive.
Good luck
Well what's the reason for you wanting them to switch?
How is it ANY of your business?
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It is nobody's business except for the parents what school their child attends. I don't know of any school that requires a contract. That is just odd. How can i convince a parent to switch their children's school?
I'd have to answer your question with a question: why?
If you are a girlfriend who wants to go to the same school as your boyfriend, you haven't got a chance.
Is there something bad (gangs, drugs, poor quality of education) at the school? If that is the case then use those to bolster your argument.
Of course there is no contract to ';make'; parents keep them there a year. What would you do, sue them?
Remember the most important word in your question: ';parent';. Unless you are the other biological parent you will not have a leg to stand on, so you will need to be extra persuasive.
Good luck
Well what's the reason for you wanting them to switch?
How is it ANY of your business?
Is it normal for a teenager to watch program with sex scene with parent?
If an adult teen watches a graphic sexual scene in a program with their parent of the opposite sex (knowing ahead of time it is in the program) is that normal????!!!Is it normal for a teenager to watch program with sex scene with parent?
I certainly wouldn't be comfortable with that situation and would probably not allow the program to be watched by teenager either.
Whether I allowed the program to be seen by teenager without me would depend on the scene's context and teenagers age.Is it normal for a teenager to watch program with sex scene with parent?
It is certainly awkward for all parties involved, but not necessarily abnormal. If either party keeps rewinding to view again and again, therein lies the problem. It is also a problem if the parent makes comments during the scene. The teen would sit there too mortified to speak, so I know the only party who would comment would be the parent.
I think it is fine as long as the sex scene was not the intention to watch the program.
Um I can't exactly classify it as normal or not. However, I'm embarrassed enough when i watch movies with kissing or romantic talk with my parents. With my friends however, I'd probably smile and squeal and say 'he's so sweet' or 'it's so romantic'!
You don't exactly talk about romance with people of different generations as you. Like last night my parents watched fantastic four. At the end, with the kiss scene, I actually went to the bathroom just to avoid awkwardness. You just really don't want to watch that kinda stuff with your parents. Its a psychological thing.
By adult teen, I assume you mean 18 or 19.
Eh, it's not uncommon. Usually it's pretty awkward for the teen, though.
When I was in my 40s, I was visiting my parents, and my father tuned into the Rocky Horror Picture Show. I'm a fan, and have it on both DVD and VHS at home. I told him that he probably didn't want to watch it. He's pretty old-fashioned about a lot of things. He only watched a little...from when Rocky emerged from the tank to the part where Frankie and Brad get it on. He told me that I was right, he really DIDN'T want to watch that show. I think that he headed straight for the brain bleach afterwards.
Well snowflake, that depend on where your mom is while this is all going down. If you live with just your dad then great, maybe this is his way of teaching you about the Birds and the Bees in a nice subtle way. If mom is at the store and he wants to share this movie with you before she gets home then you may want to start locking your bedroom door when you go to bed.
Actually, it depends on how old you are, how mature you are and how open your family lives.
You mean your parent? or one of your friends parents? if friend than its not too bad, if it is your parents, i just think that is akward...i remeber watching knocked up with my dad....sooooooo ackward
i think its normal, because people usually dont watch the movie specifically for that scene, but it is indeed awkward.
It's normal, but awkward for some.
Yup. It's normal. You get used to it.
the kids probably givin head already so tell know wut ther are seeing and it will be wierd
I'd say its normal, but knowing my parents they would probably cough lots, then get up to make a pot of tea!! LOL
Yes, sometimes it can't be avoided.
Sorry... you'll just have to blush through it.
just cover your eyes and pretend you didnt see none of it..lool it worked for me
I certainly wouldn't be comfortable with that situation and would probably not allow the program to be watched by teenager either.
Whether I allowed the program to be seen by teenager without me would depend on the scene's context and teenagers age.Is it normal for a teenager to watch program with sex scene with parent?
It is certainly awkward for all parties involved, but not necessarily abnormal. If either party keeps rewinding to view again and again, therein lies the problem. It is also a problem if the parent makes comments during the scene. The teen would sit there too mortified to speak, so I know the only party who would comment would be the parent.
I think it is fine as long as the sex scene was not the intention to watch the program.
Um I can't exactly classify it as normal or not. However, I'm embarrassed enough when i watch movies with kissing or romantic talk with my parents. With my friends however, I'd probably smile and squeal and say 'he's so sweet' or 'it's so romantic'!
You don't exactly talk about romance with people of different generations as you. Like last night my parents watched fantastic four. At the end, with the kiss scene, I actually went to the bathroom just to avoid awkwardness. You just really don't want to watch that kinda stuff with your parents. Its a psychological thing.
By adult teen, I assume you mean 18 or 19.
Eh, it's not uncommon. Usually it's pretty awkward for the teen, though.
When I was in my 40s, I was visiting my parents, and my father tuned into the Rocky Horror Picture Show. I'm a fan, and have it on both DVD and VHS at home. I told him that he probably didn't want to watch it. He's pretty old-fashioned about a lot of things. He only watched a little...from when Rocky emerged from the tank to the part where Frankie and Brad get it on. He told me that I was right, he really DIDN'T want to watch that show. I think that he headed straight for the brain bleach afterwards.
Well snowflake, that depend on where your mom is while this is all going down. If you live with just your dad then great, maybe this is his way of teaching you about the Birds and the Bees in a nice subtle way. If mom is at the store and he wants to share this movie with you before she gets home then you may want to start locking your bedroom door when you go to bed.
Actually, it depends on how old you are, how mature you are and how open your family lives.
You mean your parent? or one of your friends parents? if friend than its not too bad, if it is your parents, i just think that is akward...i remeber watching knocked up with my dad....sooooooo ackward
i think its normal, because people usually dont watch the movie specifically for that scene, but it is indeed awkward.
It's normal, but awkward for some.
Yup. It's normal. You get used to it.
the kids probably givin head already so tell know wut ther are seeing and it will be wierd
I'd say its normal, but knowing my parents they would probably cough lots, then get up to make a pot of tea!! LOL
Yes, sometimes it can't be avoided.
Sorry... you'll just have to blush through it.
just cover your eyes and pretend you didnt see none of it..lool it worked for me
What age can't a parent hit their child anymore by law?
I live in the uk, dont know how much difference that makes.
A parent hitting a child over 16 doesn't seam right to me it just looks like assault. Anyone know what age they cant anymore?What age can't a parent hit their child anymore by law?
Not suppose to hit a child anytime.What age can't a parent hit their child anymore by law?
The law is different in different countries and even within different parts of the UK.
Physically chastising a child is legally controlled strictly in Scotland, but not in England and Wales. It is, however, illegal in England and Wales to physically chastise a child to such an extent as to leave a bruise, mark, cut or any other injury, or to use any object, whatever it may be (cane, belt etc) to ';chastise'; a child in Scotland (but this is not covered in England and Wales).
If you end up charged with assault of a child, ';reasonable chastisement'; used to be an accepted defence in court, but not if it causes injuries mentioned above (Children Act 2004 S58 - punishment must be ';reasonable';, but no definition of reasonable is given.)
R v Hopley (1860) established a limited protection to children - chastisement must be ';moderate and reasonable';, something it cannot be if punishment is administered to gratify passion or rage, is immoderate or excessive, is protracted beyond a child's powers of endurance, or performed with an instrument ';unfit for the purpose'; or calculated to produce danger to life or limb.
Scotland has been clearer on physical punishments since 2003, specifically outlawing using implements, blows to the head or face, and shaking.
But the simple answer is that at 18 you have the full legal rights and personality of an adult, and all the protections the law offers to adults but denies to children, including protection from assault, even if that assault is performed by a parent.
I think the law is rather vague but they cannot hit a child at any age if it leaves a mark. If parents have been effective in bringing up their children, there would be no need to even smack them after the age of about five. I only ever gave my children a smack a couple of times when they were really out of hand.
If its your own kid, once they cheek you back they're old enough to smack. All kids go ';no'; ';wont'; you will ';wont '; oh yes you will, c'mere smack! whahahaha. Whats the cut off age? that would be when they stop cheeking you, 17-25.
I know, and they might hit you back quite hard.
They can't at all as it is assault.
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NEVER JUST DON'T IT'S HORRIBLE!! PLEASEE HOW CAN YOU BE SO CRUEL? Or if your just asking, how can anyone??
A parent hitting a child over 16 doesn't seam right to me it just looks like assault. Anyone know what age they cant anymore?What age can't a parent hit their child anymore by law?
Not suppose to hit a child anytime.What age can't a parent hit their child anymore by law?
The law is different in different countries and even within different parts of the UK.
Physically chastising a child is legally controlled strictly in Scotland, but not in England and Wales. It is, however, illegal in England and Wales to physically chastise a child to such an extent as to leave a bruise, mark, cut or any other injury, or to use any object, whatever it may be (cane, belt etc) to ';chastise'; a child in Scotland (but this is not covered in England and Wales).
If you end up charged with assault of a child, ';reasonable chastisement'; used to be an accepted defence in court, but not if it causes injuries mentioned above (Children Act 2004 S58 - punishment must be ';reasonable';, but no definition of reasonable is given.)
R v Hopley (1860) established a limited protection to children - chastisement must be ';moderate and reasonable';, something it cannot be if punishment is administered to gratify passion or rage, is immoderate or excessive, is protracted beyond a child's powers of endurance, or performed with an instrument ';unfit for the purpose'; or calculated to produce danger to life or limb.
Scotland has been clearer on physical punishments since 2003, specifically outlawing using implements, blows to the head or face, and shaking.
But the simple answer is that at 18 you have the full legal rights and personality of an adult, and all the protections the law offers to adults but denies to children, including protection from assault, even if that assault is performed by a parent.
I think the law is rather vague but they cannot hit a child at any age if it leaves a mark. If parents have been effective in bringing up their children, there would be no need to even smack them after the age of about five. I only ever gave my children a smack a couple of times when they were really out of hand.
If its your own kid, once they cheek you back they're old enough to smack. All kids go ';no'; ';wont'; you will ';wont '; oh yes you will, c'mere smack! whahahaha. Whats the cut off age? that would be when they stop cheeking you, 17-25.
I know, and they might hit you back quite hard.
They can't at all as it is assault.
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NEVER JUST DON'T IT'S HORRIBLE!! PLEASEE HOW CAN YOU BE SO CRUEL? Or if your just asking, how can anyone??
Till what ages should a parent worrie about sids?
My wife just had our first child and we are wondering till what age is sids a concern?Till what ages should a parent worrie about sids?
If your me ... I worry forever!!! But in reality they say 2-6 mnths is the most common ages for an infant to die from SIDS. When your child can roll over by themselves, and you aren't there to flip them onto their backs, they are usually safe.
.... and all of that is statistics, not really carved in stone, it can strike any infant at any time ... which is why you should follow every guideline!Till what ages should a parent worrie about sids?
At least one year, although I think they call it SIDS if it occurs before 18 months. My great-Aunt died of SIDS at 1 year. Realize that SIDS and suffocation are two different things. SIDS is believed to be primarily caused by certain birth defects, and probably not avoidable, while suffocation can be prevented. Some infants die of sleep apnea, which can be listed as SIDS, but is something that often affects preemies and can be prevented much of the time with alarm systems.
SIDS is more likely in 1st 6 months when baby cannot protect airway by rolling over well %26amp; cannot dislodge itself from certain types of bedding, pillows or cushions, but considered a possibility until age 1 by the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Pediatric RN
I was told up to a year old.
I've always heard until they are about 12 months of age.
SIDs normally occurs before a child has the strength to lift their head on their own. One way to avoid it is to not have any stuffed animals in the crib or blankets that can cover their face. I use to check on my daughter every hour when she was first born but once they get strength normally the risk declines, good luck and God Bless you and your new little one.
SIDS is a serious danger until about 18 months of age.
If your me ... I worry forever!!! But in reality they say 2-6 mnths is the most common ages for an infant to die from SIDS. When your child can roll over by themselves, and you aren't there to flip them onto their backs, they are usually safe.
.... and all of that is statistics, not really carved in stone, it can strike any infant at any time ... which is why you should follow every guideline!Till what ages should a parent worrie about sids?
At least one year, although I think they call it SIDS if it occurs before 18 months. My great-Aunt died of SIDS at 1 year. Realize that SIDS and suffocation are two different things. SIDS is believed to be primarily caused by certain birth defects, and probably not avoidable, while suffocation can be prevented. Some infants die of sleep apnea, which can be listed as SIDS, but is something that often affects preemies and can be prevented much of the time with alarm systems.
SIDS is more likely in 1st 6 months when baby cannot protect airway by rolling over well %26amp; cannot dislodge itself from certain types of bedding, pillows or cushions, but considered a possibility until age 1 by the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Pediatric RN
I was told up to a year old.
I've always heard until they are about 12 months of age.
SIDs normally occurs before a child has the strength to lift their head on their own. One way to avoid it is to not have any stuffed animals in the crib or blankets that can cover their face. I use to check on my daughter every hour when she was first born but once they get strength normally the risk declines, good luck and God Bless you and your new little one.
SIDS is a serious danger until about 18 months of age.
Are you really a step parent when you get married?
I've been with my husband on and off several times before we got married and we've split up and gotten back together one more time since we've been married. In that time we've been at odds numerous and countless times when it comes to his and I's kids. I feel like he only supports me with his kids when all is going positive, but when I'm having trouble gaining respect and instilling discipline...I'm suddenly the bad guy and doesn't want to address the issue. Currently we are not speaking as a result.Are you really a step parent when you get married?
Yes you are. First and for most he must respect you then the kids will. Try this discuss issues in private then tell him that he should tell the kids that HE has decided what was right wrong or what ever. Kids learn at a early age how to play parents against each other think back to your childhood, the one with least resistance is who you went to. I was a step parent myself raised a daughter from 2 years to now she is 29years old although her mom and i are divorced she stills calls me dad.We have better relationship than they do because she realized I was a friend as well father. that was after her mom started to respect me and stand behind my desision. Let him be responciple for the disiplen. But at the same time treat the kids with respect and it will come. Hope it all works out.Are you really a step parent when you get married?
I've become a parent to my fiance's kids even before we're married. In fact....I'd be upset if anyone that was caring for my daughter didn't call her down when she does something wrong. We back each other up if there's a discipline issue and discuss it later on when the kids aren't around if we disagree, which isn't very often. Part of loving is guiding and keeping someone out of danger - discipline is part of that.
Yep, you are. You guys need to develop a united front.
All I can say is I feel sorry for all the kids involved in this scenario.
yes you are really a step parent, you take on that responsability and you have to deal with ways the other person parents which we don't always agree with... I think that when it comes to other peoples kids its so easy to see what they do wrong but when it comes to your owns kids its harder to see and I think sometimes when the bad things they do get pointed out by someone else it stings a little, maybe that's why your husband has a hard time with it...also he probably only has them a little bit of the time so ehat you see as a big deal he might no since he doesn't have to deal with it all the time.
Yes.
Yes you are. First and for most he must respect you then the kids will. Try this discuss issues in private then tell him that he should tell the kids that HE has decided what was right wrong or what ever. Kids learn at a early age how to play parents against each other think back to your childhood, the one with least resistance is who you went to. I was a step parent myself raised a daughter from 2 years to now she is 29years old although her mom and i are divorced she stills calls me dad.We have better relationship than they do because she realized I was a friend as well father. that was after her mom started to respect me and stand behind my desision. Let him be responciple for the disiplen. But at the same time treat the kids with respect and it will come. Hope it all works out.Are you really a step parent when you get married?
I've become a parent to my fiance's kids even before we're married. In fact....I'd be upset if anyone that was caring for my daughter didn't call her down when she does something wrong. We back each other up if there's a discipline issue and discuss it later on when the kids aren't around if we disagree, which isn't very often. Part of loving is guiding and keeping someone out of danger - discipline is part of that.
Yep, you are. You guys need to develop a united front.
All I can say is I feel sorry for all the kids involved in this scenario.
yes you are really a step parent, you take on that responsability and you have to deal with ways the other person parents which we don't always agree with... I think that when it comes to other peoples kids its so easy to see what they do wrong but when it comes to your owns kids its harder to see and I think sometimes when the bad things they do get pointed out by someone else it stings a little, maybe that's why your husband has a hard time with it...also he probably only has them a little bit of the time so ehat you see as a big deal he might no since he doesn't have to deal with it all the time.
Yes.
What is the name of that song in the re-make of ';The Parent Trap.';?
It is when the girls go camping with their dad, and soon to be step mom. And they are all sitting around the campfire. What is the song that is playing?What is the name of that song in the re-make of ';The Parent Trap.';?
';How Bizarre'; by OMC
';How Bizarre'; by OMC
If I, as a mother of a child wants to move to another province without the consent of the other parent?
I want to move with my daughter to the western part of Canada..the child's father who has joint custody is saying no to the idea. What can I do legally without having to go to court to solve this issue?If I, as a mother of a child wants to move to another province without the consent of the other parent?
My sister's boyfriend has joint custody of his son and his ex-wife took him and moved to BC. Nothing legally happened to her and his access times were changed. Now rather than Thursday afternoon to Monday noon he has a three day weekend a month, 2 weeks in Decemeber, 2 weeks in April and the whole summer minus a three day weekend in each month. That was in Calgary.
A friend of mine in Hull was told that another parent can not block a move but access times had to be arranged before the move. If the other party was uncooperative then ';maintenance'; would decide on their behalf. Luckily in her case though the father renounced all his parental rights.
Family law is governed by each province so the laws will be different from one place to another. Check your local family law website or ask your lawyer for a consultation 1/2 hour.
Good Luck.If I, as a mother of a child wants to move to another province without the consent of the other parent?
There is nothing you can do legally without his consent and/ or going to court.
that would be kidnapping. you have to get the other parent to sign something saying that it is okay with them.lips
My sister's boyfriend has joint custody of his son and his ex-wife took him and moved to BC. Nothing legally happened to her and his access times were changed. Now rather than Thursday afternoon to Monday noon he has a three day weekend a month, 2 weeks in Decemeber, 2 weeks in April and the whole summer minus a three day weekend in each month. That was in Calgary.
A friend of mine in Hull was told that another parent can not block a move but access times had to be arranged before the move. If the other party was uncooperative then ';maintenance'; would decide on their behalf. Luckily in her case though the father renounced all his parental rights.
Family law is governed by each province so the laws will be different from one place to another. Check your local family law website or ask your lawyer for a consultation 1/2 hour.
Good Luck.If I, as a mother of a child wants to move to another province without the consent of the other parent?
There is nothing you can do legally without his consent and/ or going to court.
that would be kidnapping. you have to get the other parent to sign something saying that it is okay with them.
Are you able to fly by plane without consent from a parent at the age of 17?
I will be 17 soon, thinking of flying with friends to somewhere in europe from australia. My parents probably wont let me go, am i able to go without a written letter of consent from them? Need the answer as soon as possible. Thank-youAre you able to fly by plane without consent from a parent at the age of 17?
Yeah I'm 17 and fly Wellington - Sydney - Hong Kong at least 5 times a year. We just book online - no consent is needed.Are you able to fly by plane without consent from a parent at the age of 17?
yeah i'm seventeen and i live in england and me and my friends are going to tenerife in august as long as you have the money you can do what you want :D
your parents might be a bit pissed though
Yeah I'm 17 and fly Wellington - Sydney - Hong Kong at least 5 times a year. We just book online - no consent is needed.Are you able to fly by plane without consent from a parent at the age of 17?
yeah i'm seventeen and i live in england and me and my friends are going to tenerife in august as long as you have the money you can do what you want :D
your parents might be a bit pissed though
If a child is moved out or a home by a custoial parent?
and does not tell the court and does not allow for court orderd visitaion and not show up to court, come back 15 years later and try to collect supposed back child support? if anybody knows what laws to look up it would be apperiated t.y.If a child is moved out or a home by a custoial parent?
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You still owe the child support, but if she didn't have the child, than it's not to her. Find out who had the child so that they get the money.If a child is moved out or a home by a custoial parent?
So you haven't paid any child support? and she didn't let you see or visit the children? And now she wants 15 years of child support? If the child support was court ordered whether she let you see them or not, Yep! You will be paying 15 years of child support back to her!
Question? So why didn't you take her back to court for not letting you see the kids? I mean 15 years and your children didn't have any support from you! What did you think would happen after you created a child? Somebody had to be paying for food, clothing, school supplies, electricity, water, phone, gas, etc.
Court is surely the place to resolved both visitation and child support issues..that are clearly two different issues..
Child support and visitation are two separate issues. See an attorney.
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You still owe the child support, but if she didn't have the child, than it's not to her. Find out who had the child so that they get the money.If a child is moved out or a home by a custoial parent?
So you haven't paid any child support? and she didn't let you see or visit the children? And now she wants 15 years of child support? If the child support was court ordered whether she let you see them or not, Yep! You will be paying 15 years of child support back to her!
Question? So why didn't you take her back to court for not letting you see the kids? I mean 15 years and your children didn't have any support from you! What did you think would happen after you created a child? Somebody had to be paying for food, clothing, school supplies, electricity, water, phone, gas, etc.
Court is surely the place to resolved both visitation and child support issues..that are clearly two different issues..
Child support and visitation are two separate issues. See an attorney.
What kind of responsible parent would keep keep a child from hearing a speech?
about education.and claim their so patriotic did they prevent them from hearing the tons of lies told by bush during 911?What kind of responsible parent would keep keep a child from hearing a speech?
Only paranoid parents will follow the advice to keep their children home. Then it makes them look even dumber when it doesn`t turn out to be bad afterall.What kind of responsible parent would keep keep a child from hearing a speech?
If Obama wasn't the questionable sort, there wouldn't have been a problem, would there? Tell your boy to let us have a look-see at his birth certificate so we'll all know where his allegiances lie...
Ya know, you Kool-aid drinkers can give your kids to Obama if you want, it's your choice, but how dare you criticize others for their belief that Obama, the communist, racist, baby murderering usurper is not a fit role model for their children.
one that don't want their child indoctrinated by their teacher and any politician. I am tired as a parent of scare tactics teachers and school administrator use to get millages approved.
many stations pre-empted his speech in case the subject of politics came up! No, I don't want my kids to hear radical Barry. BTW, he covers his capriciousness very well!
Get over it, until 0bama makes it illegal parents can still say what they want for their children. I think that so many do not want their children to hear him says volumes.
At least Bush wasn't an ineligible usurper with British and Kenyan and Indonesian citizenships.
Only paranoid parents will follow the advice to keep their children home. Then it makes them look even dumber when it doesn`t turn out to be bad afterall.What kind of responsible parent would keep keep a child from hearing a speech?
If Obama wasn't the questionable sort, there wouldn't have been a problem, would there? Tell your boy to let us have a look-see at his birth certificate so we'll all know where his allegiances lie...
Ya know, you Kool-aid drinkers can give your kids to Obama if you want, it's your choice, but how dare you criticize others for their belief that Obama, the communist, racist, baby murderering usurper is not a fit role model for their children.
one that don't want their child indoctrinated by their teacher and any politician. I am tired as a parent of scare tactics teachers and school administrator use to get millages approved.
many stations pre-empted his speech in case the subject of politics came up! No, I don't want my kids to hear radical Barry. BTW, he covers his capriciousness very well!
Get over it, until 0bama makes it illegal parents can still say what they want for their children. I think that so many do not want their children to hear him says volumes.
At least Bush wasn't an ineligible usurper with British and Kenyan and Indonesian citizenships.
What is the age at which a child can decide which parent they want to live with in New Jersey?
While the court may take your thoughts under consideration I believe you are still considered a minor. And since your mom has primary custody of you as much as you would like to have the final say I don't think you do.What is the age at which a child can decide which parent they want to live with in New Jersey?
at 12 they can sign a declaration. But I warn you (from experience) the judge do not like that at all. Because from the court point of view, you put more emotional stress on your child for you benefit by placing your child to choose between one or the other parent because you as adults can not get along. And if it is coming from your end with this paper...the judge will defintly look down on your best interest of the child. What happens is that the child is placed in the middle of a battle--and being tugged both ways. Placing your child in this position to make an ultimate choice to choose one over the other can do serious emotional/mental damage even if you do not see it and cause displacement. So go to a family counselor first and work as hard as you can with the other parent to make the decision rather than ask your child.What is the age at which a child can decide which parent they want to live with in New Jersey?
In the state of New Jersey, a child can decide which parent they want to live with at the age of 16yrs. It's not like you just wake up one morning, say, ';I want to live with ____.'; and it happens. There's a process you need to go through. Research it yourself so YOU have something to back yourself up with.
Best Wishes =]
You can make a decision at whatever age you become capable of abstract thought.
The court won't care until you're 18, when enough seconds have passed for God to whack you with the smart stick and make your opinions matter (because yesterday you were too stupid but today you're not).
a lawyer once told my aunt that there really is no such age...until adulthood. until then (adulthood) they are legally not mature enough to make that decision for themselves. but that may have changed.
I am not positive but in the case i knew about it was 9 years old.
In my country a child can decide wich parent he wants to live with, when he is 10. I live in Romania btw
i think its 13 when a court looks at a childs opinon
at 12 they can sign a declaration. But I warn you (from experience) the judge do not like that at all. Because from the court point of view, you put more emotional stress on your child for you benefit by placing your child to choose between one or the other parent because you as adults can not get along. And if it is coming from your end with this paper...the judge will defintly look down on your best interest of the child. What happens is that the child is placed in the middle of a battle--and being tugged both ways. Placing your child in this position to make an ultimate choice to choose one over the other can do serious emotional/mental damage even if you do not see it and cause displacement. So go to a family counselor first and work as hard as you can with the other parent to make the decision rather than ask your child.What is the age at which a child can decide which parent they want to live with in New Jersey?
In the state of New Jersey, a child can decide which parent they want to live with at the age of 16yrs. It's not like you just wake up one morning, say, ';I want to live with ____.'; and it happens. There's a process you need to go through. Research it yourself so YOU have something to back yourself up with.
Best Wishes =]
You can make a decision at whatever age you become capable of abstract thought.
The court won't care until you're 18, when enough seconds have passed for God to whack you with the smart stick and make your opinions matter (because yesterday you were too stupid but today you're not).
a lawyer once told my aunt that there really is no such age...until adulthood. until then (adulthood) they are legally not mature enough to make that decision for themselves. but that may have changed.
I am not positive but in the case i knew about it was 9 years old.
In my country a child can decide wich parent he wants to live with, when he is 10. I live in Romania btw
i think its 13 when a court looks at a childs opinon
Can i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
i want to pierce my belly button. professionally this time -_- and i have my mothers approval. i just need to know where to go.Can i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
I'm in florida so idk.Can i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
yup
I'm in florida so idk.Can i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
yup
How far can a parent go regarding medical consent?
about a year ago (i know a while back, but i just started really thinkin about it recently) i went to the gyn because i get very severe cramps when im on my period. she gave me birth control and my dad filled the prescription but he wouldn't let me take it? can he do that? also, any tips for cramps until i get the chance to get something that will help?How far can a parent go regarding medical consent?
Unless a court orders otherwise, yes your parents can prevent you from taking medication. You can always go to a community health center or Planned Parenthood and get the pill without parental permission and sneak it, but I don't recommend going behind your parents' backs. I would suggest talking to your mom and dad and asking why they don't want you to have it. It may be because they're afraid that you will start having sex because you are on it. I would tell them that the cramps are killing you and you need something to help you with the pain. Maybe it means you should go back to the gynecologist and your parents should tell your doctor that they refuse the birth control - then, maybe the doctor could look at other options. I don't understand why your dad would go to the trouble to fill the prescription if he didn't want you to have them though...lips
Unless a court orders otherwise, yes your parents can prevent you from taking medication. You can always go to a community health center or Planned Parenthood and get the pill without parental permission and sneak it, but I don't recommend going behind your parents' backs. I would suggest talking to your mom and dad and asking why they don't want you to have it. It may be because they're afraid that you will start having sex because you are on it. I would tell them that the cramps are killing you and you need something to help you with the pain. Maybe it means you should go back to the gynecologist and your parents should tell your doctor that they refuse the birth control - then, maybe the doctor could look at other options. I don't understand why your dad would go to the trouble to fill the prescription if he didn't want you to have them though...
A question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
I grew up with my dad being an alcoholic and there was a lot of drama.He would try and break the door in or be kicking it,swear,call me and family names,whatever.I would go to see him and he was a mess.It was bad,but it was always high drama.Always something happening.Does anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent miss the highs and lows,not overtly,but maybe just find themself drinking too much,or have complicated relationships with boyfriends.Do things or the future seem flat without it?A question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
yes. i know what your talking about like you hate it when it happens but life gets boring without itA question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
No, That is one main reason why I don't drink alcohol or like bars. My father was a peice of sh#t. The crazy thing is that he was a cop at the time. But it did not matter, he would kick my a@@ %26amp; my mothers all the time when he drank. She would call 911, cops would show up, and my father new/worked with them all. No report, no nothing they just joked for a bit and left. He was a alcoholic bastard. No I don't miss it one bit.
yes. i know what your talking about like you hate it when it happens but life gets boring without itA question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
No, That is one main reason why I don't drink alcohol or like bars. My father was a peice of sh#t. The crazy thing is that he was a cop at the time. But it did not matter, he would kick my a@@ %26amp; my mothers all the time when he drank. She would call 911, cops would show up, and my father new/worked with them all. No report, no nothing they just joked for a bit and left. He was a alcoholic bastard. No I don't miss it one bit.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
When a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
Does the benifits that the child is recieving stopWhen a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
I believe that the child would be removed from that parents home, and if there is someone else in the home deemed a responsible parent, I would think the benifits would still be available for the child. I don't think the child would suffer,..it depends on who gets custody, I am sureWhen a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
The benefits continue since the child remains disabled.
However, if the parent is incarcerated %26amp; therefore unable to care for the minor disabled child, the probate court would intervene unless an alternative capable adult caregiver could be established as guardian of the minor child.
The disability benefits would then go to the child IN CARE OF the new caregiver
I believe that the child would be removed from that parents home, and if there is someone else in the home deemed a responsible parent, I would think the benifits would still be available for the child. I don't think the child would suffer,..it depends on who gets custody, I am sureWhen a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
The benefits continue since the child remains disabled.
However, if the parent is incarcerated %26amp; therefore unable to care for the minor disabled child, the probate court would intervene unless an alternative capable adult caregiver could be established as guardian of the minor child.
The disability benefits would then go to the child IN CARE OF the new caregiver
How do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
Im excited but scared at the same time, one moment Im happy then the next Im not so sure...How do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
You will probably be like that throughtout the entire pregnancy but in the end it is all worth it and you will know that. A baby is a gift from God and you are blessed. My first child I worried my entire pregnancy if everything would work out and it will. You have to reason to worry because you will be fine. Good luck and best wishesHow do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
Every women has anxiety about being pregnant. You doubt everything down to if you are really pregnant. the longer you are pregnant the more real it becomes to you. What you are doing right now is the best thing you can do.Mainly because even though not all our opinions are great you can find out answers to alot of questions and worries that you have the women on here are very supportive and can give you lots of advice. Good luck honey. You will be fine.
Well, not one teach you how to do it, there is not secret, there is not book, there is nothing that is going to let you know how to survive your excited and scared feeling. But i'm pretty sure that once you start feeling the baby moving, once you start feeling his/her heart beating ... everything is going to change is going to be scare to know that is a little person that is going to need you to survive in this world ... but your instincts are going to make you a great mom that feeling of protection and love is going to come from the baby.
Chika,
Its scarey but the minute you hold your tiny little bundle of joy in your arms, your motherly instinct will take over,
Trust me your gonna be GRRRREAT!!!
Good Luck
And
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!
M
excited
perfectly normal feelings :)
patience.......
Sounds normal to me.
They don't come with instructions, just a list of demands and a frighteningly deep level of (misplaced) trust that you know what you're doing.
They're interesting little animals though, and surprisingly robust.
Well, you have to sit down and really think about it. 1) I would never tell a female to get an abortion. That is out of the ?. 2) You are about to bring apart of you into this world. Someone that will look up to you for the rest of their lives. No matter what happens they will be yours, apart of you. 3) Deep down if you didn't want to keep the child please please please give it up for adoption, take it to the hospital and give it to a staff member. Don't just abandon your child. Your child is always a miracle and a blessing from God. He chose you to bring this child into the world and raise it, nurture it. God would never put more on you than you can bear. In case you haven't heard it in a while, I Love you and do does God.
It wasn't until my daughter was a month old I was ok with it. I wasn't ready for a child, I have lots of thing I want to do still. Now they've been modified to include kids, dog, and hubby.
I'm excited, but also worried as well....I think we all go through it. Part of it is angst I suppose. When one is expecting their first child, you go through all sorts of motions. Another part of it is caused by the hormones. I hear it will sometimes get worse as the pregnancy progresses. I actually am finding more and more that I am so excited and the time has been going by soooo slowly. I want to have my baby now. LOL.
You will probably be like that throughtout the entire pregnancy but in the end it is all worth it and you will know that. A baby is a gift from God and you are blessed. My first child I worried my entire pregnancy if everything would work out and it will. You have to reason to worry because you will be fine. Good luck and best wishesHow do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
Every women has anxiety about being pregnant. You doubt everything down to if you are really pregnant. the longer you are pregnant the more real it becomes to you. What you are doing right now is the best thing you can do.Mainly because even though not all our opinions are great you can find out answers to alot of questions and worries that you have the women on here are very supportive and can give you lots of advice. Good luck honey. You will be fine.
Well, not one teach you how to do it, there is not secret, there is not book, there is nothing that is going to let you know how to survive your excited and scared feeling. But i'm pretty sure that once you start feeling the baby moving, once you start feeling his/her heart beating ... everything is going to change is going to be scare to know that is a little person that is going to need you to survive in this world ... but your instincts are going to make you a great mom that feeling of protection and love is going to come from the baby.
Chika,
Its scarey but the minute you hold your tiny little bundle of joy in your arms, your motherly instinct will take over,
Trust me your gonna be GRRRREAT!!!
Good Luck
And
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!
M
excited
perfectly normal feelings :)
patience.......
Sounds normal to me.
They don't come with instructions, just a list of demands and a frighteningly deep level of (misplaced) trust that you know what you're doing.
They're interesting little animals though, and surprisingly robust.
Well, you have to sit down and really think about it. 1) I would never tell a female to get an abortion. That is out of the ?. 2) You are about to bring apart of you into this world. Someone that will look up to you for the rest of their lives. No matter what happens they will be yours, apart of you. 3) Deep down if you didn't want to keep the child please please please give it up for adoption, take it to the hospital and give it to a staff member. Don't just abandon your child. Your child is always a miracle and a blessing from God. He chose you to bring this child into the world and raise it, nurture it. God would never put more on you than you can bear. In case you haven't heard it in a while, I Love you and do does God.
It wasn't until my daughter was a month old I was ok with it. I wasn't ready for a child, I have lots of thing I want to do still. Now they've been modified to include kids, dog, and hubby.
I'm excited, but also worried as well....I think we all go through it. Part of it is angst I suppose. When one is expecting their first child, you go through all sorts of motions. Another part of it is caused by the hormones. I hear it will sometimes get worse as the pregnancy progresses. I actually am finding more and more that I am so excited and the time has been going by soooo slowly. I want to have my baby now. LOL.
Can i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
i want to pierce my belly button. professionally this time -_- and i have my mothers approval. i just need to know where to go.Can i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
yupCan i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
I'm in florida so idk.
yupCan i be 14 years old and get a piercing with parent consent. In washington state?
I'm in florida so idk.
How far can a parent go regarding medical consent?
about a year ago (i know a while back, but i just started really thinkin about it recently) i went to the gyn because i get very severe cramps when im on my period. she gave me birth control and my dad filled the prescription but he wouldn't let me take it? can he do that? also, any tips for cramps until i get the chance to get something that will help?How far can a parent go regarding medical consent?
Unless a court orders otherwise, yes your parents can prevent you from taking medication. You can always go to a community health center or Planned Parenthood and get the pill without parental permission and sneak it, but I don't recommend going behind your parents' backs. I would suggest talking to your mom and dad and asking why they don't want you to have it. It may be because they're afraid that you will start having sex because you are on it. I would tell them that the cramps are killing you and you need something to help you with the pain. Maybe it means you should go back to the gynecologist and your parents should tell your doctor that they refuse the birth control - then, maybe the doctor could look at other options. I don't understand why your dad would go to the trouble to fill the prescription if he didn't want you to have them though...
Unless a court orders otherwise, yes your parents can prevent you from taking medication. You can always go to a community health center or Planned Parenthood and get the pill without parental permission and sneak it, but I don't recommend going behind your parents' backs. I would suggest talking to your mom and dad and asking why they don't want you to have it. It may be because they're afraid that you will start having sex because you are on it. I would tell them that the cramps are killing you and you need something to help you with the pain. Maybe it means you should go back to the gynecologist and your parents should tell your doctor that they refuse the birth control - then, maybe the doctor could look at other options. I don't understand why your dad would go to the trouble to fill the prescription if he didn't want you to have them though...
A question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
I grew up with my dad being an alcoholic and there was a lot of drama.He would try and break the door in or be kicking it,swear,call me and family names,whatever.I would go to see him and he was a mess.It was bad,but it was always high drama.Always something happening.Does anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent miss the highs and lows,not overtly,but maybe just find themself drinking too much,or have complicated relationships with boyfriends.Do things or the future seem flat without it?A question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
yes. i know what your talking about like you hate it when it happens but life gets boring without itA question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
No, That is one main reason why I don't drink alcohol or like bars. My father was a peice of sh#t. The crazy thing is that he was a cop at the time. But it did not matter, he would kick my a@@ %26amp; my mothers all the time when he drank. She would call 911, cops would show up, and my father new/worked with them all. No report, no nothing they just joked for a bit and left. He was a alcoholic bastard. No I don't miss it one bit.lips
yes. i know what your talking about like you hate it when it happens but life gets boring without itA question for anyone else who grew up with an alcoholic parent!Do you ever miss the highs and lows and drama?
No, That is one main reason why I don't drink alcohol or like bars. My father was a peice of sh#t. The crazy thing is that he was a cop at the time. But it did not matter, he would kick my a@@ %26amp; my mothers all the time when he drank. She would call 911, cops would show up, and my father new/worked with them all. No report, no nothing they just joked for a bit and left. He was a alcoholic bastard. No I don't miss it one bit.
When a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
Does the benifits that the child is recieving stopWhen a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
I believe that the child would be removed from that parents home, and if there is someone else in the home deemed a responsible parent, I would think the benifits would still be available for the child. I don't think the child would suffer,..it depends on who gets custody, I am sureWhen a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
The benefits continue since the child remains disabled.
However, if the parent is incarcerated %26amp; therefore unable to care for the minor disabled child, the probate court would intervene unless an alternative capable adult caregiver could be established as guardian of the minor child.
The disability benefits would then go to the child IN CARE OF the new caregiver
I believe that the child would be removed from that parents home, and if there is someone else in the home deemed a responsible parent, I would think the benifits would still be available for the child. I don't think the child would suffer,..it depends on who gets custody, I am sureWhen a child recieves disability benifits from a parent and that parent becomes arrested for criminal reasons?
The benefits continue since the child remains disabled.
However, if the parent is incarcerated %26amp; therefore unable to care for the minor disabled child, the probate court would intervene unless an alternative capable adult caregiver could be established as guardian of the minor child.
The disability benefits would then go to the child IN CARE OF the new caregiver
How do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
Im excited but scared at the same time, one moment Im happy then the next Im not so sure...How do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
You will probably be like that throughtout the entire pregnancy but in the end it is all worth it and you will know that. A baby is a gift from God and you are blessed. My first child I worried my entire pregnancy if everything would work out and it will. You have to reason to worry because you will be fine. Good luck and best wishesHow do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
Every women has anxiety about being pregnant. You doubt everything down to if you are really pregnant. the longer you are pregnant the more real it becomes to you. What you are doing right now is the best thing you can do.Mainly because even though not all our opinions are great you can find out answers to alot of questions and worries that you have the women on here are very supportive and can give you lots of advice. Good luck honey. You will be fine.
Well, not one teach you how to do it, there is not secret, there is not book, there is nothing that is going to let you know how to survive your excited and scared feeling. But i'm pretty sure that once you start feeling the baby moving, once you start feeling his/her heart beating ... everything is going to change is going to be scare to know that is a little person that is going to need you to survive in this world ... but your instincts are going to make you a great mom that feeling of protection and love is going to come from the baby.
Chika,
Its scarey but the minute you hold your tiny little bundle of joy in your arms, your motherly instinct will take over,
Trust me your gonna be GRRRREAT!!!
Good Luck
And
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!
M
excited
perfectly normal feelings :)
patience.......
Sounds normal to me.
They don't come with instructions, just a list of demands and a frighteningly deep level of (misplaced) trust that you know what you're doing.
They're interesting little animals though, and surprisingly robust.
Well, you have to sit down and really think about it. 1) I would never tell a female to get an abortion. That is out of the ?. 2) You are about to bring apart of you into this world. Someone that will look up to you for the rest of their lives. No matter what happens they will be yours, apart of you. 3) Deep down if you didn't want to keep the child please please please give it up for adoption, take it to the hospital and give it to a staff member. Don't just abandon your child. Your child is always a miracle and a blessing from God. He chose you to bring this child into the world and raise it, nurture it. God would never put more on you than you can bear. In case you haven't heard it in a while, I Love you and do does God.
It wasn't until my daughter was a month old I was ok with it. I wasn't ready for a child, I have lots of thing I want to do still. Now they've been modified to include kids, dog, and hubby.
I'm excited, but also worried as well....I think we all go through it. Part of it is angst I suppose. When one is expecting their first child, you go through all sorts of motions. Another part of it is caused by the hormones. I hear it will sometimes get worse as the pregnancy progresses. I actually am finding more and more that I am so excited and the time has been going by soooo slowly. I want to have my baby now. LOL.
You will probably be like that throughtout the entire pregnancy but in the end it is all worth it and you will know that. A baby is a gift from God and you are blessed. My first child I worried my entire pregnancy if everything would work out and it will. You have to reason to worry because you will be fine. Good luck and best wishesHow do you deal with knowing your going to be a parent?
Every women has anxiety about being pregnant. You doubt everything down to if you are really pregnant. the longer you are pregnant the more real it becomes to you. What you are doing right now is the best thing you can do.Mainly because even though not all our opinions are great you can find out answers to alot of questions and worries that you have the women on here are very supportive and can give you lots of advice. Good luck honey. You will be fine.
Well, not one teach you how to do it, there is not secret, there is not book, there is nothing that is going to let you know how to survive your excited and scared feeling. But i'm pretty sure that once you start feeling the baby moving, once you start feeling his/her heart beating ... everything is going to change is going to be scare to know that is a little person that is going to need you to survive in this world ... but your instincts are going to make you a great mom that feeling of protection and love is going to come from the baby.
Chika,
Its scarey but the minute you hold your tiny little bundle of joy in your arms, your motherly instinct will take over,
Trust me your gonna be GRRRREAT!!!
Good Luck
And
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!
M
excited
perfectly normal feelings :)
patience.......
Sounds normal to me.
They don't come with instructions, just a list of demands and a frighteningly deep level of (misplaced) trust that you know what you're doing.
They're interesting little animals though, and surprisingly robust.
Well, you have to sit down and really think about it. 1) I would never tell a female to get an abortion. That is out of the ?. 2) You are about to bring apart of you into this world. Someone that will look up to you for the rest of their lives. No matter what happens they will be yours, apart of you. 3) Deep down if you didn't want to keep the child please please please give it up for adoption, take it to the hospital and give it to a staff member. Don't just abandon your child. Your child is always a miracle and a blessing from God. He chose you to bring this child into the world and raise it, nurture it. God would never put more on you than you can bear. In case you haven't heard it in a while, I Love you and do does God.
It wasn't until my daughter was a month old I was ok with it. I wasn't ready for a child, I have lots of thing I want to do still. Now they've been modified to include kids, dog, and hubby.
I'm excited, but also worried as well....I think we all go through it. Part of it is angst I suppose. When one is expecting their first child, you go through all sorts of motions. Another part of it is caused by the hormones. I hear it will sometimes get worse as the pregnancy progresses. I actually am finding more and more that I am so excited and the time has been going by soooo slowly. I want to have my baby now. LOL.
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